What is All that Love Means

Ram Bansal By Ram Bansal, 19th Jun 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/krp0lr54/
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Love is in the interactions you have with people, in the job you do with a liking, in the food you take with taste, in the nature you breath in the early morning, in your body as good health, and most importantly, love is in a care in pains, share in pleasures and sex-play you have with your beloved to enjoy life and procreate it.

Love is not for a Day

People loved and understood necessity of love in life thousands of years before the consumerism of love, called ‘Valentine day’, appeared on the stage of human life. So, love is not merely a Valentine celebration of a day every year, but a continuous process that keeps on flowing in and out of life like a stream flowing in and out underneath a bridge.
Love is in the interactions you have with people, in the job you do with a liking, in the food you take with taste, in the nature you breath in the early morning, in your body as good health, and most importantly, love is in a care in pains, share in pleasures and sex-play you have with your beloved to enjoy life and procreate it.

Love is a two-dimensional Chain of Experiences

As you get up from bed in the morning, a chain of love begins with a cup of coffee, a hurried preparation for the day, a nourishing breakfast, a parting kiss as you leave for work, the work itself, and so on with the end in bed for making a new beginning on the next morning. This is what may be called a temporal chain of loving events.
Another chain is not temporal but related to your interactions with particular persons. You saw a beauty, liked her, made advances to grab her, kissed her, proposed to her, married her, produced children through her, .... and so on, the chain continues. Similar chains exists with each person you interact.
No link of any such chains is without a love of yours or other’s love for you. This brings us to the point that love means life or a partitions thereof.

Love is an Activity Forever

Love is not a stalemate or passivity, but it is a vibrant act of continuous flow-in and flow-out from the mind housed and spread all over the body in the form of neurons. Since, it is an ongoing process, it may fade with neglect, or prosper with care. This brings us to the point that love need be nourished, cultivated, cured if need be and toned every moment of its existence between two entities.
Passivity is not love but it is part of love, since at every moment of loving, there has to be an active lover and a passive beloved without which the act of love won’t be feasible. The partners may keep on interchanging their roles of lover and beloved, and even this process needs the two to be active in the process of love.

Love is a Sacrifice

Your love to a task is your sacrifice of resting moments, your dedicated love for your partner is your sacrifice to enjoy sex with multiple partners of varied tastes, your efforts in keeping your partner satisfied are your sacrifices of time and other resources, et cetera. Every relationship embodies love in it and every relationship restraints some of your freedoms. We can’t talk loosely in front of elders and children as we often do with our friends. Friendship is the relationship that needs minimum of sacrifices, with all others being quite taxing to a person’s freedoms.

Love is the Meaning of Life

Life originates from love and can’t sustain without it. Conversely, love originates from life and continues with it. Even after end of a life, memories of it are based on love and are creators of love. Thus, love prolongs life even after death. It is the true meaning of life.
Life is lifeless without love, but not necessarily a male-female love. It may be for anything like work, world, society, etc. for whom the person is passionate about.

Love is the Wealth worth Earning

Love is not available for begging, asking or commanding, it has to be earned by offering, sincerity and truthfulness. My persons consider love as a product of attraction, they are certainly wrong. Attraction may bring two persons together for further processing and decision on love but can not bind them into a loving relationship. It may bring in an exchange of sexual pleasures but that is not love.
The first indication of germination of love is readiness to sacrifice and preparedness for a suffering as the price for getting love. Thereafter, the love from the other is earned, and regularly nurtured for keeping it alive and vibrant, else it fades away soon.

Love is a Passionate Feeling

Love has neither a physical existence nor related to anything physical, but it is a passionate feeling for someone’s super-natural existence. It is a junction where feelings of the two meet each other and provide contentment to each other. The physical existences of the two may supplement the love and provide a physical dimension to love, but that does not form an essential component of love.
A passion, what the love is, is less than a craze because it has the support of logic behind it what is lacking in a craze.

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Experience, Feeling, Life, Love, Passion, Pleasure, Sacrifice, Wealth

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author avatar Ram Bansal
An Engineer in the wonderland of Authorship, principally for authoring eBooks. My writings principally focus on psychology, Indian politics, philosophy, health and happiness in routine ways.

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author avatar Md Rezaul Karim
19th Jun 2015 (#)

Love is a complex chemistry between people..

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author avatar brendamarie
19th Jun 2015 (#)

Love, is making it through everyday life, the up and down together by supporting one another no matter what comes along.

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author avatar Ram Bansal
19th Jun 2015 (#)

@Md Rezaul Karim, It is complex indeed, but may be simplified with simplicity of hearts.

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author avatar Ram Bansal
19th Jun 2015 (#)

@brendamarie, Ideally speaking, you are right, but practically it becomes impossible to carry on under some circumstances. Under such situations, love transforms to hatred.

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