The Daughters of Eve (or the Bliss of of my Heart Naïveté)

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An intimate recollection of the wonderful women who came to my life.

"Praise to all.."

“And yet women — good women — frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep”
- Charles Bukowski

"they wanted your soul"

The preceding are a recollection and to give praise to all the women I can remember who came and stayed to my one eventful life.

THE PIANIST, she was the 3rd in a family of 5 girls and 1 boy. She was a daughter of a timber tycoon in the south. She has golden voice too pursuing Bachelor in Music. She was petite and elegant, I was the adventurist new boy in town, known for my stereo typed gallivanting and my overestimated potential from the Capital city. The father is a discerning and protective caveman to his family and marbles. I was a college freshman she is a senior. The match is not made in heaven but the fortune teller had a good vibes and warning. In the end I simply can't hurdle the odds ahead and broke our hearts in agonizing meltdown.

THE (religious) NURSE, she was raised and actively in a deeply spiritual family. I met her during my middle executive corporate sojourn. We both pursued Graduate program in the state university. She was younger by a decade. Her family was so warm, I was so blessed by their heart pouring welcome arms and home. Her smile would melt me in no time and torture me if she would hold it away.My checkered past however was too much for her too handle when i finally revealed it before our first year. Her church is her center and I will be a wicked choice if we continue. In the end it had to be another tearful goodbye.

THE PRE -MED, She was taking medical allied course. Only daughter between two siblings.she was funny, she believes on my dreams, she is proud of my talents. We had a good start but four years after we better quit before personality difference turn into lifelong hatred. She traveled Asia and settled in North America.

"She made it through.."


THE HOTTIE, she was an architect student from the other university, while i am student leader that time . It was a roller coaster ride. She has her vices and night life with friends not on my circle. She was talented and street smart we are both from the south of nation's capital. We hit it wild in the beginning but called it quits when fishy thing happened behind my back. Few month after our break up she got married to the Manager where she was working as a crew. A year after she was dead from drug overdose at a young age of 20.

THE SINGER, she was a self made woman. She was awesome, bruises in life made her stronger. Student by day, piano bar singer by night. A modern woman with a simple dream. She made it through (with my support) eventually to executive ladder while I was rebuilding my career, but after 16 home re-locations, 7 years and 4 cities. We separated our ways even I was on the top of academic career and she let me raise our son in single parenthood. Few years hence she met a tragic end.

"Tearful goodbye.."

THE SCHOLAR, she was a childhood sweetheart back in my hometown. A cerebral beauty. We had an epic beginning and reunion after 20 years not seeing each other or heard a thing. Crossing our path again was the peak for a great novel romantic end and silver screen's box office hit. She was a Fullbright scholar before, it was not surprising that she decided to pursue her Doctorate degree in the Midwest. It seems I finally got my lifelong reward until we realized its not a GOD plan that we met (again) at the wrong time. After few colorful months and eventual long distance affair it was over. She had to go back to her family, forgive her philandering estrange husband and move on to what was worth saving for.

THE TEACHER, we have a common friend over the years-her sister. We knew each other at least 3 years prior to one fateful night when our hearts are sulk in blues. We were online separated by an Ocean and the deepest trench. She was contemplating her life. I was assessing what remains on my days. She was the eldest in the family with one simple dream; to ease and gift her Mom a quality life she deserves all her life raising their family. She was brilliant in many ways, loves literature, have a nose in cooking and stubborn to change her philosophies. I am the youngest in my family I guessed we clash in basic tenets of handling relationship. She eventually dropped me more than once.



"A son to hear.."


The Gods must be arguing against my chances until we choose our own God to bless one shared life. Four (4) years after one eventful night and one (1) year after we tie the knot a gift of life added. A son to hear my own stories one day how amazing women walk in and out my life before his Mom swept me away for good to start a wonderful family. the teacher.Saigon De Manila

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Disclaimer: Image above does not represent actual person but simply visual tool to enhance the over all composition. All women mentioned were all adults and have their private lives and request for their identities will not be entertained.

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
Dear friends and foes: I am a teacher, a poet, an artist, self-published author on art & poetry, CSN Life Skill coach and an international marketer.

See my archives @ edgardecastro.blogspot.co.id

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author avatar ORourkeDesigns
14th Feb 2015 (#)

Beautiful! You are so blessed!

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
16th Feb 2015 (#)

Thank you, it could also be a long curse and am glad it was ove and landed in a very wondeful wife!

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author avatar Kingwell
15th Feb 2015 (#)

Good share.

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
16th Feb 2015 (#)

Thank you for appreciating!

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author avatar Retired
15th Feb 2015 (#)

How beautiful post! Excellent work!

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
16th Feb 2015 (#)

Thank you Carmen..your kind words are really appreciated!

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author avatar LOVERME
16th Feb 2015 (#)

good I have spent my whole life with one only wouldn't like to take a chance with another some like to change women like does a five star hotel visitor but men and women are of all kinds some cynic some beautiful some crank some intelligent but what is a woman who does not know love or can't let you in above and let you see her soul from within women don't know men at all some are shy many afraid after all so love a woman if you have the stamen else save your semen for the rigt one woman is unpredictable son ask your sister or mom as Valentines many will come after the night tthey may shun and run leaving you alone to moan so man friend I am a well wisher of all that is human get one any one and love her in turn adjust if you have to cause under the cover of darkness all woman have only one thing in common that interests most men at that moment rest is a life of compromise don't it ever despise love your own wife

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
25th May 2015 (#)

Oh an incident happened to me on my senior high when a planned valentine turn pfft..i have no choice but to give the flowers to my mother and greeted her happy valentines day! sigh felt like a loser really..lol

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author avatar Utah Jay
16th Feb 2015 (#)

You have a wonderful talent

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author avatar LOVERME
6th May 2016 (#)

so do u but u walk away too often

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
17th Feb 2015 (#)

Jay why was you last comments sounds like a parlance that i am a don juan hahaha... Am a victim here Utah from the avalanche of women who left me. Lol

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author avatar Nancy Austin
25th May 2015 (#)

Thanks for sharing.

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
25th May 2015 (#)

Its my pleasure Nancy Austin..and am thankful for you dropping by.

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author avatar Nancy Austin
25th May 2015 (#)

The pictures are lovely especially the one with the rose.

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11th Jun 2015 (#)

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author avatar M G Singh
2nd Jul 2015 (#)

Its a beautiful post related in a lovely style. Good show. Made enjoyable reading

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author avatar SaigonDeManila
3rd Jul 2015 (#)

Am sincerely glad having you entertained and appreciated this article Madan. Thank you really!

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author avatar LOVERME
6th May 2016 (#)

ur a midnight born owl who has such experiences
foul not foul

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