Signs That He is Not The One For You

jjmyles By jjmyles, 5th Mar 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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You thought he was the guy for you , but now your not so sure. Find out the signs that will let you know that is time to drop him and find someone else.

So You Think You Found Him

You've been hoping to find the man of your dreams. At last you think you have found the prince among the frogs.

There he is. He is handsome, charming and seems to be the perfect guy for you. You are excited and are hoping that this guy is your happy ever after. But as time goes by the perfection starts to tarnish. At first it is just a few just little things. But then It begins to seem like he is just not who you thought he was. What do you do when you suspect that your dream man is not the guy he appeared to be? Look for the tell tale signs. some are subtle but others are quite obvious. in fact, they scream" run, run, as fast as can away from this guy"! Trust your instincts. When you find the relationship is bringing more pain and unhappiness then security and joy into your life, you are with the wrong guy.

The Signs He is The Wrong One

All the signs are there but you aren't quite sure if he is really the wrong guy. Here are some indications that will let you know it is time to move on.

1. He is not answering his phone when you call.

2. Has Picture's of naked girls on his phone.

3. Disappears for hours or even day's at a time.

4. Spends to much time on the computer and has a lot of females on his Facebook account.

5. Would rather spend most of his time hanging out with his friends then with you.

6. Can't hold down a job because he parties to much.

7. Still keeps in close contact with his ex.

8. Is addicted to drugs.

9. You find illegal porn on his computer. ( especially if it is snuff porn or involves kids.)

10. He is verbally or physically abusive to you.

If you see the afore mentioned signs, you can be sure this guy is not who you hoped he was, and in most cases the faster you move on the better. Why waste you time on someone that isn't all that into you or that is not really someone that is worth the pain and heartache he will bring into your life?

If you find he has been watching Kiddie pornography or snuff porn run as fast as you can to get away and call the police. This is a seriously sick, dangerous man if he is into that kind of stuff. There is someone else out there that will be a much better guy for you.

In conclusion, You may have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince but remember he is out there and you do not have to settle for the frog.


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Love to write and am interested in a variety of subjects. l Love my family and friends and my dog Peewee.

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author avatar Kingwell
6th Mar 2015 (#)

Good advice. Blessings.

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author avatar Carol Roach
6th Mar 2015 (#)

these are so true, thank you for this great article.

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author avatar Nancy Czerwinski
6th Mar 2015 (#)

Great article! I hope that people that need this article read it. Blessings to you!

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author avatar vickylass
10th Mar 2015 (#)

Well, I rather say this man is a monster! Good and unique article!

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author avatar Sherri Granato
12th Mar 2015 (#)

Excellent points!

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