Relationships - cherish them

deepa venkitesh By deepa venkitesh, 7th Sep 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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People war with each other over silly issues. There are a lot of people in this world including kids who do not even have the luxury of a blanket and two meals a day. When there is so much misery around, why do people fight over small incidents based on ego?

War and peace

Arguments are the first steps towards a break up. Why hate when there is so little time to love? Is it not a blessing that one has the luxuries like a roof above the head and assured meals? It pains me to see people especially partners who declare open war with each other when they can instead solve such issues within the four walls of their house. The basic mistake people make is to talk ill of their partners to others. They confide family secrets and trust strangers. The result is that people take sides and in the end the partners lose their love and they forget all the lovely moments they had. Stop! Do not do this to yourself. Please reconsider your fatal decision.

Please read these lenses to reconsider your decision.
1. The voice that speaks from within your heart
2. my love for him

Please take a moment to vote on your first love

When did you love first?

Have you had to face love storms- a duel debate

Please voice your opinion and state why you walked away from a marriage

My favorite song

Abba - Chiquitita

Please listen to this lovely song. Abba is a group whose songs I love most and cherish forever.

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Counselling, Counselling On Divorce, Deepa, Divorce, How To Be Happy, How To Revive Love, Internet War, Love, Love War, Marriage, Relationships

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
I am a post graduate in sociology and public relations. I write articles and poems.

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
7th Sep 2012 (#)

Thanks Mark

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
7th Sep 2012 (#)

Very wise advice. Thank you deepa.

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author avatar Mark Gordon Brown
7th Sep 2012 (#)

It is very sad when a good relationship turns bad and people forget to love each other and it turns to hate.

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author avatar A K Rao
7th Sep 2012 (#)

I agree with you , when we don't have enough of time to love then why to hate? Nice one! Thanks !

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
7th Sep 2012 (#)

thanks dears.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
8th Sep 2012 (#)

Ego and selfishness are the main reasons for strife everywhere including, sadly, at home. Thanks for the share Deepa, I will check the links - siva

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
8th Sep 2012 (#)

yes sir and thanks for the support.

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author avatar Delicia Powers
8th Sep 2012 (#)

great page and advice...I have been married to my first love for over forty years now...

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
8th Sep 2012 (#)

nice to know that dear, it reflects in your poems

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author avatar Md Rezaul Karim
9th Sep 2012 (#)

The whole essence of this article actually could be found in the very first line that we are indeed start fighting on silly issues. Very nice one.

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
9th Sep 2012 (#)

thanks dear

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
12th Sep 2012 (#)

love your words of deep wisdom deepa...thank you..

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
27th Sep 2012 (#)

thanks cnwriter

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
27th Sep 2012 (#)

thanks cnwriter

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author avatar vpaulose
30th Dec 2012 (#)

Nice. Thank you dear Deepa for your affectionate appreciation. Wish you a prosperous and happy New Year.

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author avatar vandana7
15th May 2014 (#)

Hi Deepa...at times, it does become necessary otherwise one of the partners may be sadistically pushed by the other to an extreme like suicide without feeling any remorse for it. I have noticed that people who are wrong in a relationship often go about on pre-emptive bid to defame the really harassed partner. Such defamation comes in small and big way. The harassed partner is looked down by the entire society with nobody really open to listen to their end of the story. After all, people do make up their minds often without thinking. In such cases, the partner who is actually suffering the injury gets no public or even family support. It leads to suicide. I would rather they take a chance and even break the marriage if need be than to continue living with the sadist.

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author avatar deepa venkitesh
16th May 2014 (#)

Hi vandana, so nice to see you here. you are so right. So, often I too have had negative feelings but shake myself and become brave

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