Reasons why men cheat you that you should know

David2010 By David2010, 21st Nov 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Most ladies get discouraged when they are cheated on-get to know some of those reasons you man could cheat on you and probably keep your man for good.

The Reasons Why Men Cheat

One of the most prevalent ills of the modern society is the cheating man. This is evidenced by the many divorce cases that have resulted from the cheating man to the many ladies on talk shows, who all lash out about one main thing, an unfaithful boyfriend, fiancé or husband. However, despite all the efforts to divorce from this unfaithful man, one question stands, why do men cheat?

A couple of theories have emerged over this phenomenon, some blaming the woman, others justifying the act while others blame the “other woman”. The following however are the two main reasons that have proved consistent over a pool of researches.

Uncomfortable relationships/marriages

Every man wants to be respected in their own homes. They in fact want to be treated as kings in their homes. However, the modern woman often forgets this and is always complaining or fighting about one thing or the other. In addition, the women empowerment movement has caused the lady to forget her submissive role as they want to be equal partners with their men. This creates an uncomfortable atmosphere in the home, causing the men to look for a more conducive environment where they are treated as they desire. In addition, the affair helps him run from the issues that he is facing in the marriage; hence they create a parallel support system.

Searching for thrill

Men are born to be the “hunters” in a relationship. They are born to be adventurous, to look for new grounds to conquer and for a new thrill in anything. Some men find their relationships boring at one point in life. However, instead of trying to inject thrill and adventure into that relationship, they look for another sense of thrill, often another relationship. In addition, some men who are emotionally bored as their women are busy enhancing their own lives or looking after children tend to look for other relationships where the other women appreciate them, complement them or even notice their efforts. Finally some men want to experiment sexually and sleep with many women as it makes them feel sexually powerful and desirable


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An educator--teacher, guidance counselor, principal, father to be soon, avid water skier, loves to travel. My articles will mainly focus on travel and lifestyle.

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
21st Nov 2012 (#)

Here is a simple answer:
It is because their spirit, heart and Soul know you are not the one and go searching for the perfect one.
Many of them lack the respect for the woman and above all themselves for thinking of another whilst married to one.
The best thing to do is walk away from the union and give them the chance to think about it and if they wish to return introspect and accept or step away from it or just leave it where it belongs in the past.
I did this and have never been happier. Let the husband made the keep happy while I lost my home, my family unit, job-employment, money, food because of his devious dealing. But I am happy and that is all that I show the world, I smile and hide my eyes behind sunglasses. CNwriter has written a similar article regarding traumatised women like herself which could bear possible relation to this.

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author avatar vpaulose
22nd Nov 2012 (#)

Thank you for your nice post David.

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author avatar LOVERME
22nd Nov 2012 (#)

if you just dwell into the mechanics of sex
perhaps your views may alter,
I shall try a.....

please read at my wall as it would be unfair to post mine here .thanks

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author avatar David2010
22nd Nov 2012 (#)

Loverme, i will read the post.

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author avatar David2010
22nd Nov 2012 (#)

You are welcome Vpaulose

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author avatar David2010
22nd Nov 2012 (#)

Lady Aiyanna, i would definitely be glad to hear more about that..

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