Raising kids is a responsibility

Adirendra By Adirendra, 14th May 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/elk6me4l/
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Raising kids is responsibility,fun and enlightening. Growing along with them will make the job easier. Parents are not the owners of the household. kids are not the tenants but members of household.

Raising kids is a responsibility but equally fun and enlightening

Bringing up kids is an art in itself. As many arts, it is also getting faded in the light of development. But kids are born even today in same old way.i have realized after becoming mother myself, they still require same love and security. Bringing up kids is like growing an university.
Two watch words to raise newborns and toddlers is love and security. Thinking them as individuals by themselves, having their own needs in their own acceptable way.
Respecting them as souls right from the conception will help us modulate our lives so that growth of the child is optimum. sorry to say, we got to make changes in our lives , if we want these angels in our lives (this is tip to new would be parents).
we cannot be same old professional type A ,worried about our career and finances always.kids become the center of everything, literally everything.
I feel the gift we can give to society, is well grown kids physically, mentally and spiritually. well i should say it is a RETURN GIFT we are giving to the society as we are grown(still growing) out of it.I remember my uncle saying, that we owe to our parents, teachers and last but not the least society.
Now the question is how to grow such kids? It is a easy job, as any other job with its own challenges and hurdles. we have to accept that we got to grow along with them.
we are not perfect beings to begin with, we have our own strengths and weaknesses to deal with. we cannot correct ourselves overnight once the child is born. therefore we have to grow along with them, thinking about ourselves as grown up kids (thinking so will ease matter i suppose).
First mistake we do is (in my opinion) we think we must keep correcting our kids every step. other wise , we imagine the worst possible to occur in their lives. we never realize we share the home with our kids and elders. even though being bread winners we should not behave as the owners and treat kids and elders as tenants. tenants are expected to conform to the rules and regulations of the house. but members of the household will have both rights and duties. I feel when grown as a member of the household, child will grow more responsibly in a positive way

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Gift, Household, Member, Return Gift, Society

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author avatar Adirendra
medical doctor by profession. would like to write on health, family, kids, mind, philosophy.

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author avatar ammu1115
21st May 2013 (#)

rising kids its a arts, 100% true thank you,

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author avatar chinki
23rd May 2013 (#)

Very true....

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