Put Romance Back into your Marriage

brendamarie By brendamarie, 17th Apr 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Is the romance gone from your marriage? Have you gotten so used to your partner that you feel you have nothing more to learn about them? Do you long for the days when you first started dating?

Do you want the romance and excitement back in your marriage? There are several wonderful and exciting ways to bring the romance back to your relationship.

Dress up for your partner

Put the romance back into your marriage by dressing up for your partner. Don't run out and buy costumes, unless you and your partner are into role playing. Pay attention to the way you look. After, being with the same person for many years, people fall into the comfort zone where they feel that it isn't necessary to impress their partner.

The way people look and dress does have an effect on the individual and the people around them. If you look good, then you feel good. Ladies, wear a dress, put up your hair, use make-up, go out and buy your favorite perfume. Guys:  put on a dressy shirt, shave, comb your hair and put on your favorite cologne.

It doesn't take that much effort to make yourself look good. Think about the wonderful time you are going to have with your partner. They may not even recognize you.

Say something kind

Romance doesn't have to be difficult. It's easy to come up with kind things to say. Think back on what made you fall in love with your partner in the first place. Compliment them on the way they look. Everyone likes to get compliments, even men. They like to hear they look and smell good, as women do. Complimenting others appears to be a lost art these days. You should compliment your partner more often. Complimenting your partner will not only will it make them feel good but, you will feel good as well.

Show each other some affection

A loving touch can mean so much. It shows your partner that you are still in love with them. Guys, women like to be held and cuddled, and they enjoy touch and affection. It makes them feel warm and conformable. Guys, give your wives a gentle hug every now and again. Snuggle up on the couch together and watch a movie you both enjoy.

Go on a date

Recreate your first date. Take a walk on the beach. Do something neither of you has ever done before. You don't even have to go out of the house. Make a candlelight dinner for her. She won’t have to cook, and it's a great surprise. Your wife will love you for it. It's one of the most romantic acts you can do for your wife.

Remember to put some romance back into your marriage. Once a week say or do something nice for your partner. Give each other hugs and kisses throughout the day. Get dressed up and make yourself look good. Go out on a date and have some fun. You will find yourself  falling in love with your partner all again.

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Rework of http://fullofknowledge.com/relationships-2/get-up-close-and-personal-with-your-mate by Brenda Fluharty 7/03/2014
all photos by Brenda Marie © 2015

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Marriage, Marriage Advice, Romance, Romantic Love

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author avatar Kingwell
22nd Apr 2015 (#)

A terrific share my friend. You have put it together so well. Blessings.

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author avatar Carol Roach
24th Apr 2015 (#)

yes all great points and I have to do that right now actually

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