Pregnancy not like in the Olden Days

Nafeesa By Nafeesa, 16th Aug 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Finding out you and your partner are Pregnant, Worlds greatest news ever, nothing compares to it.
Doing everything right from the pregnancy test to the Doctors appointments and crash boom bang its all gone.....

Knowing you and your partner will be parents soon is so amazing that waiting for the arrival of your babie/s makes everyday unbearable and than the unthinkable happens?

This Happens every time.....
I find out I am Pregnant due to all the signs and a missed period, so ecstatic we were, hubby and I. Knowing you doing all the write things according to the knows and how's of pregnancy makes it more heart breaking when all of a sudden at the beginning of the 2nd trimester and all of a sudden everything comes crashing down and your whole world is not what it seems.
on the way to hospital and you having all this emotions and you don't know what the outcome will be, still having hope that this is nothing and that everything will be okay and reaching the emergency area and being wheeled into the emergency casualty room and all the tests are being done you are put through all those excruciating pain and the Doctor comes to you and says......
I'm so sorry Ms but you have lost but we couldn't save the baby.
What happens now?
Why Me?
Knowing that all these Questions are in your mind and NO ONE can answer you makes it all the more hurtful and unacceptable.
What happen to the Olden Days when there were not many Technology and equipment's and going through a pregnancy was a breeze, and the only person you had with you was your Midwife.
In today's time with latest Technology and Equipment so many Woman suffer out there and No one knows what you going through except you.
I have personally had 5 Miscarriages recent being in February 2013 and being able to talk about it kind of aided me to deal with this hard fact that nothing is medically wrong with me so why am I not carrying to full term.
I don't know what the future and God's Plans are for me but I will wait and see what happens next.
Only and best advice I can give any of you going or went through it having someone that understand what you going through and being by your side every step of the way helps a lot. Family are the most important.
Hubby's out there you going through the same emotion that your partner is going through communication is the only way of getting through it TOGETHER.
Hope and Pray all those whom are PREGNANT may GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR PARTNER a SAFE PREGNANCY & a HEALTHY BABY!!!!!!


Miscarriage, Pregnancy, Pregnancy Care, Pregnancy Problems, Pregnancy Signs, Pregnancy Symptoms, Pregnancy Tests, Pregnancy Tips For First Trimester, Pregnancy-Related Deaths

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I am an all rounder, love cooking, baking, watching movies, reading. Co owner in retail Cellular & Sound.

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author avatar Mark Gordon Brown
17th Aug 2013 (#)

I am sorry for your loss. I wonder why so many problems?
Are you exposed to chemicals at home? If you are in the USA I wonder if it is the hormones that are in the milk or meat that are causing you problems? Or even cell phones?

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author avatar Nafeesa
17th Aug 2013 (#)

Hi Mark
No I am not in the USA. Lactose intolerant but on multivitamins. It's been like this since I can remember. Thanks for your thoughts

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
17th Aug 2013 (#)

Nafeesa, I can relate to your predicament as I became a father years after my marriage. May you be blessed with a healthy baby soon and thank you for sharing to comfort others too. I am sure doctors should be able to identify the issue if all this scientific advancement has to make sense - siva

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author avatar Nafeesa
17th Aug 2013 (#)

Thank You Siva. Only People who goes Through it knows what its all about

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