PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE

Yon Maryono By Yon Maryono, 2nd Feb 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Many marriages fail because they are lack of preparation in deciding to live together in marriage, both physically and spiritually

PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE

Many couples who have been blessed by the church marriage having failed in living together even the marriage have been divorced by humans. Some of them are lack of preparation before they decide to live together in the unity of the family. We are aware that the family is the main basis of the lives of the people who have to stand firm.

2900 years ago, approximately 970-950 BC, the important thing in a marriage preparation has been disclosed by Solomon. He wrote: Complete your work outside, get your fields; and then establish your house (Prov 24:27). In that time, if a man would like to have a family or get married, he had to work first, by working on his farm, he built a household.

The same principle applies today. If we are truly planning a family life, we should ask ourselves, 'Am I really ready?' The answer is not solely dependent on our feelings with regard to love, but, there are certain responsibilities that must be considered by every couple. Someone who wants to get married should make preparations to be able to assume responsibility not only to meet the physical needs, but also spiritual includes the role of God's pondering for a husband and wife (Ephesians 5: 21-33, Galatians 6: 2)

So, courtship is not just for fun. That is the time for the couple to learn how to deal with each other with the fitting, in order to see whether it is wise for them to get married. That is also the right time to apply self-control, do not treat each other that are not good or deceptive

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Courtship, Marriage, Marriage Relationship Problems

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author avatar Jenny Heart
2nd Feb 2015 (#)

Good advice! I'll be getting married soon and all this information true for all couples to think about

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author avatar Yon Maryono
2nd Feb 2015 (#)

Congratulations. Jenny. I do hope all your plans can be implemented properly. Gbu

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author avatar Retired
3rd Feb 2015 (#)

Marriage is beautiful, but people need to put other things aside, and focus on the promise they made to each other before our LORD, that is why I believe many marriages fell. Great article.

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author avatar Yon Maryono
4th Feb 2015 (#)

Tank's for your sharing.

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author avatar Retired
4th Feb 2015 (#)

You're welcome.

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