My Boyfriend is Always Busy & Doesn't Spend Enough Time With Me! Learn How to Change This

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The essence of being beautiful is flaunting it, not for the wrong reasons, but for magnetic reasons to the right guy for you. Beauty entails every aspect of you, from the outside to the inside. Use these series of articles to get some tips on how to attract a guy, make him yours and as well keep him. If he goes away, it should not be because of you and in such a situation, never compromise your worth.


Do you enjoy spending time with your boyfriend, but always feel like he does not make as much time for you as he could? Does it sometimes feel that you could have something really special going for the both of you if only he got to know you better? If you are wondering how to let your boyfriend know that you wish to spend more time with him without coming off as needy or clingy, read on:

Objectively examine his reasons for not spending more time with you - If it is a temporary work or family-related situation that is eating up his spare time, be patient. He will appreciate you more for being understanding. On the other hand, if you seem to be meeting only on his timetable all the time and getting a string of excuses anytime you try to meet him, reconsider how serious this guy is about you.

Re-examine your reasons for the belief that he is not spending enough time with you - Expecting him to spend all his or your spare time together is not reasonable. Guys needs some time away from you to miss you and to be on their own or with friends.

Schedule some common interest activities together on a regular basis - Spend some time together regularly on activities that you both enjoy. For instance, you can go jogging together, play a sport, or learn a new hobby.

Avoid nagging him to meet you more often - Nagging him will not help. It will only make him want to avoid your calls as well.

Plan to have fun - When you are together, plan for some fun activities that you can both enjoy rather than leaving it to him or to the moment. Ensuring that your time together is fun will make him look forward to meeting you again.

Avoid making him feel guilty when you are together - Dropping hints or making remarks about how much time he is spending away from you spoils the fun of your time together. If he is constantly made to feel guilty when he is around you, he will not want to spend time with you.

Discuss your feelings rationally and calmly with him - If all else fails, get your thoughts together and think about what you are going to say before you talk to him. Be calm and put forth your thoughts logically. If you get a mature and rational acknowledgment from him, it would mean that he is on the same page as you.

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I am a renowned writer in ezinearticles and I focus more on relationships and break-ups. I will be re-posting my over 6,000 articles here. I'm also now the official promoter of the group DFM E-Group!

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