"Meet And Marry Your Mate From The Internet"

Peppernina63 By Peppernina63, 21st Sep 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/3i4hw1ve/
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Met my husband on Udate dating service, talked about three weeks, he proposed on the internet and I accepted, he came to meet me for first time and we got married a month later and have been married 12 years and still counting.

"Meet And Marry Your Mate From the Internet"

I've been married 12 years to a godly, respectable and very loving man from the internet. I came to the realization that maybe I wasn't going to find the godly man that was the other half of me. At 52 years old my ultimate dream came true. My daughter gave me her computer, that made me happy, even though I was an illiterate when it came to the computer. One day at work I picked up a Wal Mart Connect computer
disk and finally started my internet adventure. Of course I had no idea
what I was doing. It was fun browsing and I didn't know that things just
popped up everywhere on the internet. That is exactly how I got introduced to Udate, the dating service for singles.


I paid the membership fee and started talking to people, and people from everywhere started talking to me. This was very exciting to me. You didn't have to give out your phone number or address unless you wanted too. My honest - to- goodness favorite line to meet special friends was: "I'm looking for a true friend, someone that know Jesus an lives a godly life."
If they didn't answer back, it was okay since you don't want to be bothered with anyone that's not a godly person anyway. That means there will less headaches and heartbreaks for you. I met quite a few friends on the internet, I even met a few neat women friends.

I have always attracted military men for whatever the reason. I met a retired soldier and we hit it off right away. We were getting to know each other so well that I had his home number and cell number. I was calling him or he was calling me. We started making plans to meet each other.
When I got back form my vacation to Louisiana. One day something happened that changed the whole outcome of our blossoming relationship. After our last conversation, he told me that he would be away for a few days on real estate business for a relative and that was okay. A couple days passed and I tried to contact him on both of his phones to no avail. I tried his email address and he didn't respond. I even went to the Udate website and he hadn't been there in days. I was very concerned and disappointed, because I had started to really like him a lot.

When I got home from my vacation, I didn't even want to look at the computer or get on it. I finally had gotten up enough courage to surf the internet again, even though the lost connection had shattered my confidence. I prayed for my friend because I didn't know what had happened to him but I had to move on to greater adventures. I was browsing on the Udate website again, trying to keep myself busy so that I wouldn't be thinking about my friend. While browsing, I passed this gentleman and decided to back up my browser and checked out his picture. I'm an eye person and form looking at his eyes they seem very sincere looking.
I thought, Why Not? And I sent him an email. In my email I told him I was looking for a true friend. He emailed me back and I was shocked because of his promptness. It was Father's day, so he told me that his twin sons were taking him to dinner for Father's day but when he go back, he would check out my profile and get back with me. while he was away at dinner, I decided to check his profile and was presently surprised because he had so much in common . Oh boy, another retired soldier. He had been a soldier 27 years, but had to retire because of health reasons. He got back from dinner and got back with me, at least I know he is a man of his word even if I don't know anything else about him.
I found out that he had a mom and a sister in my home town. That was really a shocker but it was all good.

I found out that he was indeed a godly man, one who had respect for women and treated them as such. After two weeks we exchanged phone numbers and personal email addresses. he called me one day and his voice almost took my breath away. He told me that after talking to me, he wouldn't be wasting anymore of his money with Udate because he had found what he was looking for all his life and I felt the same of course. The more we talked on the phone, the more we were convinced that this was it.

He was such a thoughtful and caring man. About three weeks after all the conversing back and forth, he sent me an email asking me to marry him. I said yes. I told him that I didn't want to be involved in a physical relationship until after our marriage and he agreed with me. A week later he came to Irving Texas by way of San Antonio, Texas and he had a ring with him when came. He was and is everything I wanted in a man. I do believe in miracles because God sent me one and it can happen to you.
I've been married 12 years to this godly man, loving man of my dreams. We were blessed to have found each other on the internet. Most people have misconception about meeting people on the internet. I can understand skepticism but I think meeting over the internet at a legitimate website for meeting singles is okay. There are many dating websites available for lonely and caring people who desire to meet people of the same caliber.

I'm not an expert on meeting men on the internet. I just know for a fact that it worked for me and my husband. So, don't knock it before you try it. You might meet the man or women of your dreams. I'm a woman who believe in praying about all things, including meeting people on the internet. I really didn't pray for a husband, I just wanted a true friend but God has blessed me with both. If you're really serious about meeting someone special, I think you should pray about it first but that with all things. Be honest with yourself when meeting men or women over the internet because I can tell you the majority of them are looking for someone real, genuine, honest, loving and caring.

Here's Just a few tips on meeting lonely men and women over the internet:
1.Make sure you are being real with the person you're interested in.
2.Use your own line of communication to meet lonely men or women.
3.Always tell the other person exactly what you're looking for in a mate and don't sugar coat it.
4.Always be yourself, don't pretend
5.Don't give out your name, address or phone number unless you're sure of the person.
6.You can correspond with people in other cities, states or countries. Remember love has no bounds. My husband was 360 miles away but that didn't stop him.
7. Always tell your mate-to-be, you're looking for a godly mate, this way you can't lose unless they lie to you.
8.Try to learn as much as you can about the kind of person he or she is before you meet face to face.
9.The longer you correspond with your mate, the more you know about them.
10. Try really hard not to make any promises you can't keep

All the tips above are helpful tips or advice to keep you from getting involved with the wrong man or woman. I think if you can find someone as honest as you are, your relationship has a great chance of turning into something really special. Remember, if you can find a special friend, it could turn into an everlasting relationship where you can love and cherish each other forever.

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Dating Advice, Dating After Divorce, Dating Online, Dating Tips

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author avatar Peppernina63
I'm a wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Published author, handmade jewelry maker and a artist. I'm a minister, child of God a people lover. I love to cook and invent my own recipes.

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
21st Sep 2013 (#)

Met my husband on an email and been married since 2001 till date. First and only love. Would be careful of matrimonial and dating sites. Yours may be a one in a million success story but many are deadly combinations.

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author avatar Souvik
21st Sep 2013 (#)

Very romantic article Pepperina

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author avatar cnwriter..carolina
21st Sep 2013 (#)

lucky you ...keep it shining bright...

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author avatar Stella Mitchell
21st Sep 2013 (#)

How marvelous ... that truly is a miracle !
I am happy for you are both ..
God richly bless you
Stella ><

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author avatar Trillionaire
21st Sep 2013 (#)

How awesome!

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author avatar Peppernina63
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you Aiyanna, for your visit and comment as I said, I pray about all things even dating sites. Fortunate for me I don't have to go there anymore.

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author avatar Peppernina63
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you Souvik, for your visit and comment. I thought it was kind of romantic myself. I appreciate you.

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author avatar Peppernina63
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you cnwriter for your visit and comment and it was luck my dear, I call it a blessing.

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author avatar Peppernina63
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you Sweet Stella, for your visit, comment and blessing I appreciate you. God bless

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author avatar Peppernina63
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you Trillionaire, for your visit and comment, You are appreciated.

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author avatar Fern Mc Costigan
23rd Sep 2013 (#)

Very inspired Peppermina, love is a many splendored thing as well it doesnt have any barriers! Great piece my friend!

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author avatar Peppernina63
23rd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you so much Fern, for your visit and your comment. God bless you.

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author avatar LOVERME
24th Sep 2013 (#)

U SURELY HAVE BEEN LUCKY ..
TO BE BLESSED BY THE INTERNET WITH A HUBBY ...
NOW DO READ THE FRIENDSHIP LOVE POETRY I JUST POSTED IF IT DOES YOU PLEASE...
sorry for caps half blind

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