Loving a person – is it easy?

vpaulose By vpaulose, 14th Mar 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/3y70j7uy/
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Loving others is not easy. It needs a heart of kindness. All religious teachings or commandments are based on love.

Challenging love

Love is a challenge! True or faithful love is a real challenge in life. It is difficult to find real, selfless love. All religious teachings or commandments are based on love.

Loving a person or thing is not so easy. Literatures and folk songs say that love is easy. It takes time to understand the person or thing which can pave the way for better loving.
The opposite of love is hatred. If you are pessimistic about a person or thing you cannot love. It is toxic. It destroys others as well as the individual who hates.

The gap between love and hatred


There is a gap between these two opinions of love and hatred. You may find a range of emotions, including concern and indifference before you reach either of these two opinions.

If somebody offends you, your response may be in a variety of ways. You may feel hatred, bear grudge, or even seek revenge. Perhaps the negative reaction may be easier than the positive one.

Do not revenge

The Book of Leviticus says, "Do not hate a fellow Israelite in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly, so you will not share in their guilt. Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord." (Leviticus 19 17-18)

Jesus gives more importance to the commandment of love. But practical experiences say that loving a person is a great challenge. Love is misinterpreted in the modern lifestyle and it does not differentiate love and sex.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
14th Mar 2015 (#)

Some people are toxic; the most we can do is to keep away from them. Sadly hatred seem to trump love in this world though love manages to survive in the end for us to see another day. Thanks VP for this share - siva

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author avatar vpaulose
16th Mar 2015 (#)

Thank you dear Siva for your loving comment.

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author avatar Randhir Bechoo
14th Mar 2015 (#)

Nice page on Love. Thanks for the share.

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author avatar vpaulose
16th Mar 2015 (#)

Love is greater Randhir. Thank you.

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author avatar M G Singh
14th Mar 2015 (#)

Nice thoughts VP

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author avatar vpaulose
16th Mar 2015 (#)

Thank you dear Madanji for the comment.

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author avatar Carol Roach
15th Mar 2015 (#)

love is natural and free flowing and I don't find it is that hard at all. No it is not the same as sex

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author avatar vpaulose
16th Mar 2015 (#)

Thank you dear Carol for your nice words.

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author avatar Retired
15th Mar 2015 (#)

Excellent work! Love is beautiful!

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author avatar vpaulose
16th Mar 2015 (#)

It is dear Carmen. Thank you.

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author avatar Nan Joe
19th Mar 2015 (#)

Great topic! Love comes in many forms. sometimes we don't understand it. Sometimes we think we know all about it simply because we want to be near some people and not so with others. Sometimes, I wonder if we love everybody the same as we are supposed to.

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author avatar vpaulose
2nd Apr 2015 (#)

Thank you Nan

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author avatar Sandra Jason
13th Dec 2015 (#)


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