Love versus logic!!!

jayababy By jayababy, 24th Apr 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/22g3ifw0/
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Reason for strained relationships between couples is --argument. Instead, discussions are healthier than arguments.

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In married life, one has to compromise on certain issues which one may not really like or enjoy. But supporting each other’s likes and dislikes though they are different strengthens intimacy. I remember a wonderful sentence by Mother Teresa -- :Don’t spend your time in judging others…then you will not have time to love them!”
Show interest when your husband is eager to share his dreams, new interests or his achievements. It is absolutely necessary that such an intimacy should exist between husband and wife. “A family that prays together every night will stay together till the end”—it is an advice provided in Christianity to nourish the intimacy in the family.
In order to develop intimacy between a couple, it is essential to adopt certain methodologies. We all have unwritten lists of priorities. The husband—earning income, parents and education for children. Similarly, the wife too have her own list—family members, children, TV shows, new gadgets and so on….
The husband back home after a long tour and wishes to taste the home-cooked food. But the wife refuses and says,-- I have been sitting at home and cooking. Let us go out for a change.
One is more blessed in giving than taking.
When there is a problem in the family, own the responsibility for it and resolve it. My suggestion to men-don’t get lost in trying to understand a woman else you will become more confused. Instead love her unconditionally. Then see the magic happening in both of you!

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Childhood Memories, Children, Children Books, Childsupport, Husband, Logic, Logical, Love, Wife

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author avatar Songbird B
27th Apr 2011 (#)

Lovely article....Thank you for sharing...

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author avatar jayababy
28th Apr 2011 (#)

Thx Songbird.

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author avatar Minakshi
4th Jun 2011 (#)

I loved the article.....an the advice delivered through it.

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author avatar jayababy
5th Jun 2011 (#)

Thank u Minakshi.

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author avatar xphantoms
2nd May 2012 (#)

Nice article, like it

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