Is love an emotion we should fear.

lastayStarred Page By lastay, 10th Sep 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
Posted in Wikinut>Family>Relationships

This is about love, the fears we have, the questions, the hardships and the uncertainty's

Trepidation

Is love a thing to fear? that question is always on my mind, I fear falling in love because every time i do i get hurt. now i know that this i something a lot of people go through, not just me, but in my mind it seems as if i am all alone in the world.

Questions

It,s not logical but every time i meet someone i feel i will grow to care for i start finding all kind of reasons a relationship would not work, i am too old for him, he must have other women, he is just trying to play me and get in my pants, what does he see in me, what is it about him that attracts me,i want to have a child would he make a suitable father.

Conclusion

After a while i make up my mind that i will take the chance and see where the relationship goes, but as usual with my cynical mind i start to dissect a good thing worrying about this and that. will it soon be over, does he even like my body, will i know if and when he starts to stray, am i interesting enough for him, why did he not call today like he normally does, am i going crazy.



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Lee bogle : The lovers
http://www.firstpeople.us/pictures/art/1024x768/The-Lovers-1024x768.html

Tags

Fear Of Getting Hurt, Fear Of Intimacy, Fear Of Loss, Fear Of The Unknown, Love, Love And Desire, Love And Soul, Love Poem

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I love to see a finished piece of work i can be proud of.I love to create articles and i am always writing. You may also find my writings at
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author avatar Retired
12th Sep 2012 (#)

Nice heart felt writing, I believe there is someone for everyone. Don't give up hope and trust yourself :)

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author avatar lastay
12th Sep 2012 (#)

Thank You.

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