Intimacy In Marriage

Joeze By Joeze, 15th Oct 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/35yf-b_-/
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Marriage provides a platform to forge the most
intimate relationship possible between two humans. It provides a deep
communion. When maintained like that, it leads to much fruitfulness in
every aspect of life. Despite the great benefits that a quality
relationship between spouses offers, few couples actually work on
their marriage to achieve the desirable depth of intimacy

intimacy in marriage


Marriage provides a platform to forge the most
intimate relationship possible between two humans. It provides a deep
communion. When maintained like that, it leads to much fruitfulness in
every aspect of life. Despite the great benefits that a quality
relationship between spouses offers, few couples actually work on
their marriage to achieve the desirable depth of intimacy. Hence,
unintentionally, the relationship is kept at sub - optimal level. The
good news is that it takes nothing out-of-this world to achieve
intimacy between married couples. All it requires is diligence and
dedication to individual's roles as husband and wife respectively. The
result is a bliss - heaven on earth; increased stamina to confront
life's challenges and greater productivity in our life's assignment.
The Fellowship in Marriage The primary reason for marriage is
fellowship. The deeper the fellowship, the more fulfilling the
relationship. Things That Enhance Fellowship:

1. Complete Acceptance: The first thing Adam did was to accept Eve.
Accept your spouse: His/her physical qualities, status, background,
habit, and everything about him/her. Until this is done, there will be
frequent irritations which may precipitate tension and bitterness
eventually.

2. Commitment: The couple must be so committed to each
other that other relationships in their lives (except their
relationship with God) become secondary. Nothing should be allowed to
come in-between them.

3. Transparency: Nothing to hide,
self-acceptance, clean honesty. These bonds strong. Trust is built.
The relationship is deeper.

4. Reciprocity: Marriage is mutual
commitment. The depth of love required in marriage entails reciprocity
by the other party. Each spouse should take initiatives to outdo the
other in love: thoughts, words and acts of kindness. Never take the
other party for granted.

5. Benevolence: Love always gives. When gifts
flow out of a heart of kindness and love, it makes a world of
difference. You cannot be too kind to your spouse, give generously.
Lend a helping hand. Speak kindly. Act thoughtfully.

6. Forgiveness:
Offense can not but come when two adults relate that close. But you
must be quick to forgive in small and great matters. Don't hold on to
a wrong. Don't repeat a matter. Forgive and forget.

7. Passion: Rich
emotions must be invested in the relationship. Sexual intimacy should
not be compromised and should be celebrated.

8. Effective
Communication: Communicate love, verbally or non-verbally. Allow no gap
to develop. Communicate with words, with silence, with looks, with
non-erotic and erotic touches.

9.Sensitiveness: Be sensitive to
his/her needs, be it spiritual, physical, emotional or material.
Identify with his/her pains, celebrate his/her joys. Be vulnerable to
his/her moods.

10. Sacrifice: Be prepared t6 make sacrifice for your
spouse. It bonds like nothing else. Jesus gets our attention through
sacrifice.

11. Patience: Be patient with one another, to hear the
other party out in a controversy; to see the desired change; to obtain
God's promises.

12. Gratitude: Never at any time take your spouse for
granted. Be grateful for his/her thoughtfulness, gifts, help etc.

Marriage should be a good fun. Make your home a heaven on earth!

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