If I can really get along with you, I can get along with anyone

JoshuaClayton By JoshuaClayton, 29th Apr 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/1a5-p3hp/
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I do not believe in traditional concepts of love, especially traditional concepts of romance. Those almost never really work, and end up too impulsive and usually in divorce or break up of some sort. I do believe in building love and self-esteem within yourself to create a capacity to genuinely live and love successfully though. That is what this article is about.

The most powerful love concept, self-love, romantic love and otherwise.

Love is not automatic, it is a force that is productively built within yourself. Indeed, the most powerful love concept there is can be called patience. The second most powerful, but just as important is understanding. Without those two things, there cannot be any real love, no love of self, no love of others, especially real romance.

Sure, I could sit up here and type a romance novel type definition of love and sex. But, I would be doing you and myself a great disservice without any respect for reality. For trust, romance, and an understanding relationship are built, not given.

Once I heard a song by the Motown group The Temptations called "Romance Without Finance". It is true and honest I understand, the most successful romance happens when everything is not just "equally yoked" or compatible to define that properly, but well balanced or genuinely working to define that properly: Romance without the means to support it emotionally or financially (in that order) is the worst thing in existence in any reality. To win any game, you have to play well. Romance and love is not any exception.

So, when we really think about things: Automatic love does not even happen in the movies or novels. There are usually plots and twists that are patiently read through even in those books before "happily ever after" is reached.

We are happy, now what?

Happiness, like I said above is not automatic. It needs to be maintained and kept up like anything else in existence and life.

Look, if happily ever after were easy as it sounds in the stories at the end, long term and short term maintenance would not be needed or even the best Oscar winner needs roles after the award is won to keep making money in acting. Get it? You can have happiness, but it needs to be maintained and maintained well. That is the "now what?" I am writing about in this section. We also need to love ourselves first before we even ever try to love others, or become an organic winner and the real happiness will follow and last as long as we genuinely maintain it.

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Love, Love And Desire, Love At First Sight, Love Romance Definition What Is It, Romance, Romantic Love

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I am a freelance writer based in Inglewood, California, USA. I used to write under a few aliases, but now I have nothing to hide and write mostly under my own name. I write mostly on self-help topics.

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author avatar Diane Zimmerly
16th May 2015 (#)

Your words are truth.

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author avatar Sandra Jason
13th Dec 2015 (#)


Hello to every one out here,

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Thank you
all for reading.

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author avatar Sandra Jason
13th Dec 2015 (#)


Hello to every one out here,

My name is Sandra Jason, I live in United Kingdom, My husband and I have been married for about 6 yrs now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn't even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that Dr Frank Ojo can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he did a spell for me. Three days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Frank Ojo . If you need a spell caster that can cast a spell that truly works, I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you. if you have any problem contact him, I give you 100% guarantee that he will help you, This is his details

E-mail: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com .
Web site: http://lovespell2.yolasite.com .
Mobile number +2348072370762.

Thank you
all for reading.

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9th Oct 2017 (#)

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