How to Tell If He is Flirting With You! Here is How to Get the Real Message Behind His Actions

Lambasted By Lambasted, 26th Nov 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL
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The idea of a woman attempting to interpret a man's signals can be very confusing at times. This is because you may not be in a position to discern whether he has serious intentions or if he is just flirting with you. In the wake of this perennial problem that many women in the society face, this article moves to give seven clear signs to know that he is trying to flirt with you.


How is he dressing? You will be certain that your guy is flirting if he changes his appearance or adopts a new look after a long period of friendship. One thing that can cause a man to flirt with you is if you made comments regarding his appearance. For example, if you mentioned to him that you prefer a clean-cut look on a guy and he is prompted to shave off his beard and replace his jeans and t-shirts for khaki's and button-downs then this is a pretty good indication that he is flirting with you.

Does he only have eyes for you? A flirty guy will always give all his attention to you. Normally, men do not give all their attention to just one girl. If you happen to be out with friends and the guy in question seems to be talking to you alone, then there is little doubt that he is crazy for you.

Does he want to buy you things? The most common sign among most men which shows that they are flirting with a lady is if they ask to buy the lady something or take her out. Once you've heard this question, the proverbial ball is in your court. A "no" is a rejection, so make sure you word it tactfully; a "yes" is an open invitation for his advances.

Does he show signs of embarrassment? If a guy who was not shy suddenly blushes whenever you are talking with him, then you do not have to be told that he is flirting with you.

Does he just say "hello"? You can also tell that a guy is flirting with you if he changes how he greets you. A prolonged handshake means that he has some feelings for you.

Does he call you often? Is he calling to wish you goodnight every evening? If yes, then there is no doubt that he is actually flirting with you.

Is he acting jealous? If your guy has started to become jealous whenever he sees you smiling with another man, perhaps it is the best time you make your own move based on the best of your judgment.

So, if your guy's recent behavior matches with this list, then you are most assured that he is flirting with you.

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