How to Rekindle the Relationship Flame

Ivan DimitrijevicStarred Page By Ivan Dimitrijevic, 1st Jul 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/2qd03hpc/
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Let’s see what you can do in order to relight that spark you've been missing in your relationship lately.

Introduction

Long lasting relationships are no easy thing to keep going, especially when you stop and compare it with the blazing glory of passion and adrenalin it was when it started. This realization can cause quite a panic between the partners who start questioning their devotion and feelings towards one another. This is a trap you need to avoid. When love isn't present anymore, you don’t question, you just know. The fact that you are wondering about it means that there are some feelings left and there is still a chance to get things back on the right track.

Ask any couple that lasts more than 10 years and they will tell you that a relationship is something you work on, not something that is perfect from start to finish. Nobody is perfect and, therefore, relationships can’t be perfect, but you can always turn them into good things if there is still love involved.

Travel together

The problem might stem from the monotony of your everyday lives and a change of pace might suit you well. Sit down with your partner and talk about places you would like to visit and plan out your next vacation earnestly. It doesn't have to be an exotic location far away (it is great if you can afford it though) but the whole point is to spend time with each other and enjoy each other’s company, without the distractions and the monotony of your everyday surroundings. Make sure you both like the destination though, since this isn't going to work if one of you is angry because they got dragged into going somewhere they didn’t want to go.

Work on your looks

This goes for both partners! A lot of times, people turn into slobs when they enter the “safe zone” of a steady relationship and this can be the kiss of death. Do something different with your hair, buy new clothes, dress up from time to time and do it to please your partner. This kind of effort usually does wonders for the relationship and it can spark a silent flame to blaze true again. You can ask your partner what he/she likes but if you are going to do this, try not to get into jealous arguments when comparisons are made.

Do something special for each other

No, I’m not talking about the bedroom, that’s the next chapter. The dating period isn’t the only time you should pay attention to each other. Be creative and use what you know about your partner to really sweep them off their feet. It is not that hard to do and you will be surprised to see how much you actually know about your partner. People tend to forget, but surprising someone and making them feel special is not just something they will enjoy. Managing to make somebody very happy is something that makes you happy as well.

The bedroom

As far as troubles in the bedroom go, there is a bunch of stuff that can go wrong and a bunch of ways that can resolve them. There are a lot of websites that can help you resolve your sexual problems as far as skill and knowledge goes. As far as making it interesting again goes, fantasies are always a nice option to go for. There need to be some general ground rules so nobody gets offended or embarrassed but fantasies are a great way to get to know each other even further and to deepen your communication. They are fun as well.

Summary

In most cases, all it gets is a genuine effort to push things into the right direction. It might take you a while to resolve all the underlying issues you have between the two of you. You might need to go through a couple of shouting matches and it might not always be fun and games but this is what makes strong couples. Grabbing the problems by the horns and working them out, this is the stuff from which good relationships are made of. Good luck!

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author avatar Fern Mc Costigan
1st Jul 2014 (#)

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author avatar Fern Mc Costigan
1st Jul 2014 (#)

Sorry for the error, I meant awesome post!

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author avatar Margaret Michel
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Nicely written! The travel together idea is good even for an overnight... to get away for together time is crucial I think for a healthy relationship!

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