How I met My Father Part 2

Bipolar Blogger By Bipolar Blogger, 31st Jul 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/13vlj75j/
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This is a multi part story of how I met my father beginning from birth to when I met him when I was 25 years old.

How I met My Father Part 2

Photo was taken about 1 year after meeting him, that is my mom in the photo with him in 1995.

We left off last time at my parents getting a divorce at only 17&18 yrs old. Well, you combine youth and new relationships and a father in the military you get distance and that is what happened.
My mother remarried my sisters father which did not work out and did not take too long to end and my sister ended up staying with her father. A couple of years later my mother married my little brothers father at which time I am really unsure of my age but it had to be around 4 or 5 years old I believe.

This marriage did last but it was no bed of roses, I suppose in the beginning it was kind of ok for both of us, I spent the summers with my grandmother to give them some alone time and to give me some "happy and accepted time" as my stepfather never really looked at me as his son and I certainly never looked at him as my father. I can recall when I was around 8yrs old calling him "dad" for the first and only time and it was as unnatural as a criminal arresting a police officer lol. It never happened again.

I will refrain from going into all the grimy details of my sordid relationship with my stepfather or the horrific parenting skills he had and simply say there was abuse, mental, intellectual and physical and thank God never sexual. He just wasn't my father and we were both well aware of that reality.

Jumping forward there I was at 17yrs old and in the U.S. Navy 1986.

Will continue in - How I Met My Father (Part III)

How I Met My Father (Part I)
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How I Met My Father (Part II)

How I met My Father (Part III)

How I met My Father (Part IV)

How I met My Father (Part V)

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Father, Father And Son, Fatherhood, Fatherhood Hood Father, Fathers, Fathers And Sons, Fathers Love, Meeting, Meeting Again, Meeting People

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author avatar Trillionaire
1st Aug 2013 (#)

Thanks.

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