Forgive and Forget

ladyfoxxy By ladyfoxxy, 22nd Sep 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Forgive and Forget.

What’s going on between one person and another cannot be fix easily. Sometimes it takes time to forget and forgive, to heal the wound, especially when things done by others leave marks inside and outside. There are instances that even we want to forget those bad things done to us by others, it is very hard, and it is not as simple just like a blink of an eye.
Forgiving is so hard because it is hard for us to live at the present while keeping the bad memories. Our minds continually recover and move back and forth from our fast to the present; in short we keep on thinking something happened to us and our plan. All of us want to leave without thinking something wrong with us. What we want is a daily life that nothing bothers us.
There are different reasons why forgiving is so hard for us, for all people. We did not expected that others can do such things to us especially when they are our friends, love ones and family members. When someone hurt us, we keep on thinking about it continually. We can’t accept the fact that it is already happened to us. People are very hard to move on and let go. The pain is still in our heart and mind.
Everyone is trying to left behind the past and live a life with happy thoughts and good memories. Forgiving is too difficult to do, forgiving is hard and forgetting is one of the big problems that people can’t solve. We need to accept the fact that what happened to us before is unchangeable. We cannot change everything, what we need to do is try to change those bad memories into inspiration to avoid it happen again.
Everyone is a victim of unforgivable act, and even us are sometimes are the perpetrator of terrible act of sins and violence. That’s why there are times that even forgiving ourselves is very hard to do. Holding on to hurt and anger is like a poison destroying life. We think and then we act such things on how we can throw back to them what they did to us.
All people have pride, but sometimes that simple pride turns into big ego. We keep on thinking and motivating our self that we are on the higher ground than others or to those people that hurt us, that’s why we can’t forgive them. We can’t forget them. Forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting. This two are very different. Usually we can forgive but we can’t forget everything. We can show that we’re alright but deep inside; we still keep the hate to others.
Forgiving is a justice, someday at the right time we can forgive, we can let go but not at the moment that others say the word “sorry or I don’t mean it”. We can forgive but it takes time. All we can do at the present is pray and learn to release the pain, control our anger and hatred through meditations and cry as much as we can. Crying doesn’t mean you are weak, crying simply help us release the pain. It is a way of easing the hurt inside us.
Don’t rush your self-forgiving; just wait for the right time. Just ask for help from God above and things will go smoothly. Ask for His guidance and love so we can be alright at the right time. Let us think that what is going on to us has its reasons, has its purpose. We can look at the bright side of our life and prepare for the future and not for the past. Give trust to our self so we can do everything for better plans and life.

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

All have similar experiences. Best is to learn from them and move on. Forgive we can, forget is rather tough as they replay - maybe, a warning not to repeat the mistakes or trust others blindly - siva

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author avatar ladyfoxxy
22nd Sep 2013 (#)

Thank you for your nice words sir. I hope all readers will appreciate all of this.

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