Finding Strength in Love Part One

OonaWingedWolf By OonaWingedWolf, 23rd Jul 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Advice from my life experience with relationships. Things that work, and things that don't.

Finding Each Other

The hardest thing to do these days, is meet someone who is honest, wants a relationship, and can commit. There are things you should and should not do when looking for someone new to be with. First: Don't pay for dating services. They usually do not work. Second: Don't put an ad in a paper or on Craigslist, these can be dangerous. Third: If you want to go to the club to try to meet someone, do NOT drink. If you need a drink make sure it is non-alcoholic and that you keep your glass in your hand and in eye sight until it is gone. If you set it down for any reason, get rid of that one and get a new one. It is too easy for people to drug you while you are away. Safety first! Now, some things you should do. First: dress to impress in a good way, don't wear that miniskirt or ripped jeans or white-beater shirt. Dress slightly more casual than you would for a very important interview. By dressing more conservatively you will put off those that only want a single night of "fun". I recommend exchanging emails instead of phone numbers. This will slow up the less than savory types long enough for you to change address and contact info when you get home. I would change it on this special email after every outing that results in emails from guys. Finally, relax and have fun!

Dating THE One

Ok, now you have found the one. First, make sure you are not dating anyone else at the same time. This can damage the foundation you are building or even kill the relationship before it begins. The important thing to do in the beginning is to go out together to places you can talk. Get to know each other. This is very important. You must establish the ground work for good communication. Without communication there is dishonesty, fear, distrust and it often leads to a break up. Make sure you never take your date somewhere that is obviously not going to interest them, at the same time, be sure you do not go to cheap fast food places too much. This can send the wrong message that either you are too poor to eat better (in this case they leave) or that you do not respect your new partner or yourself. This can lead to arguments and eventually departure of the one you found. A good, sturdy relationship thrives on conversation, cuddling, and doing mutually enjoyable things together.

To Marry, or Not to Marry? That is the Question!

Not everyone is meant to get married. Some people change drastically once that paper is signed. Some simply do not see a need for such a "medieval" practice. It is up to the two of you and no one else whether you should marry or not. Do not let outside choices persuade you to do something you did not really want to do. You will regret it down the road, which could ruin the happily ever after.

Thank you for reading, please watch out for part 2!


Couples In Love, Love, Relationship Advice, Relationship Issues, Relationships

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I love animals, I enjoy drawing, writing, painting and crocheting. I often have opinions and advice that I have not had a place to share in the past. Now I feel free to write, thank you wikinut!

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
23rd Jul 2014 (#)

Good points. Relationship is give and take - marriage is a trade-off like everything in life. One cannot have the best of all worlds. One should not also look for excuses to get out of the relationship but allow it to mature over time. One issue is one partner trying to change the other and that is not at all advisable - siva

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author avatar OonaWingedWolf
23rd Jul 2014 (#)

Thank you for your insight. I will take your words into consideration as I write the next installment.

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9th Dec 2014 (#)

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