Fear of getting married?

Euphonos By Euphonos, 8th Mar 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/8ita4mz9/
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Every woman dreams of her wedding, the dress, the cake and walking down the aisle to be with the one she is in love with.

“Oops!!! Marriage, you scare me”.
Does this ring bells? Most of us are scared of getting married.

Oops!!! Marriage, you scare me.

With divorce rates rising high day by day, tying the knot seems more intimidating than ever before. Although, I cannot make you step into or out of a marriage, I can assure to give you a brief picture as to how you can decide to go ahead and take the big step in your life.

Perhaps, it is just more of the belief part rather than the phobia which is stopping you. If you manage to change your belief which is sabotaging your decision process, life would be easier.

“Having said that, I am sure you can now guess the thought flow going on in my head right now”?

Realm Inner-self

Self analysis helps a lot more than you ever think. Being single is awesome and you get to believe your own instinct and be independent. But, in marriage, we give up the right to be ‘me’ and learn to be ‘We’. It is two people trying to figure out a way to be ‘us’ and yet remain ‘me’. That is fear of marriage.

So, talk to your inner self, find out what’s going on with your mind throwing away implications and beliefs that hinder your decision.

Re-evaluate your past

It could be a bad relationship based on your past relations. Try to figure out what didn’t quite work out. By understanding what went wrong in the past can help you comprehend and alter your perspective towards marriage. The bad relationship could be your friends or family.

If you are anxious about your marriage falling apart, make sure to jot down if’s and why’s. This might not sound certain but sure worth a try.

Your partner could be your

Of all, talking to your partner is the perfect way to say goodbye to your fear of marriage. Perhaps, he/she would be able to understand you better than any others. Also, communication is quite an essential part for your marriage to stand by.

The one

First of all, reason out if you are marrying the one you love or being forced or chose your partner for other good and suitable reasons? Probably then you might realize or come to a decision in choosing the person or fear of marriage with that person.

In the end, it is all about love which will work in your marriage. If you love your partner, fear would be nothing but an inch of excuse unless you don’t like marrying the person.

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Communication, Love, Marriage, Marriage Advice, Marriage Relationship Problems, Marriages, Partner, Relationship, Talk

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author avatar Euphonos
I am a Published Author of Wings of Emotions Vol I & II. http://www.amazon.com/Euphonos-Aus/e/B00G7K0LOM

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author avatar Fern Mc Costigan
10th Mar 2014 (#)

NIce post!

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author avatar Euphonos
25th Mar 2014 (#)

Thank you Fern Mc Costigan :)

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author avatar Delicia Powers
10th Mar 2014 (#)

creative and upbeat advice...!

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author avatar Euphonos
25th Mar 2014 (#)

@Delicia Thank you

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author avatar madugundurukmini
29th Apr 2014 (#)

marriage advice

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author avatar Salem
14th Oct 2014 (#)

nice article.

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author avatar Euphonos
16th Oct 2014 (#)

Thank you @Salem :)

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