Divorce is never a Solution, Yes, But Sometimes it is

ladybird By ladybird, 9th Mar 2015 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Divorce in most cases is not the solution, but one cannot generalize and sometimes it just has to happen for the good of all

Divorce and exceptions


I have been practicing law for almost 12-13 years after graduating from law school at Indore. I am now a high court lawyer and really enjoy my profession. I have during this period dealt the at least a 100 cases of divorce and alimony. What is my take on such cases?
I have observed that the couples who divorce, rarely find happiness after divorce. You break once you are likely to break again. The children suffer a lot and once a couple divorces there is nothing they can do to solve the children’s problem.
Most divorce cases are on grounds of adultery and incompatibility. I think both can be solved, as divorce does not lead to bliss. I have observed only 1 divorce case where a woman was happy after divorce as she was subject to a daily thrashing by her husband. By the way I sent him to jail term. I wonder what my friends feel about this ?

The case of the husband who thrashed his wife everyday

Now I am relaxed and can relate a small story from my cases. One day, about a year back I found a distraught lady waiting for me in my office. I could make out she was in trauma. She told me that her husband beat her every day and after that he would have sex with her. It was one hell of a torture. I asked her why she didn't go to the police, but she said she was scared as the local police inspector was a friend of her husband.

I promptly went into action and filed a divorce suit in the family court and also a criminal complaint against the husband, I rang up my friend in the police and also the magistrate who recorded the statement of the woman as per criminal procedure code.
The husband was arrested on my initiative. This surprised him a lot. In the meantime I got a divorce for my client as well as hefty compensation as the man was rich.

The husband was also sentenced to 2 years in jail by the session court. I was happy at this divorce case and I know the lady is living happily in Bhopal. Well , well perhaps exceptions make the rule

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Divorce, Marriage, Wife Beating

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author avatar Sivaramakrishnan A
9th Mar 2015 (#)

If one party is taking advantage - give and take, but taking only all the time while the other has to give without any return, then the relationship has no meaning. Some are set in their ways and so divorce is the only way out. However, I agree children are innocent victims - siva

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author avatar Carol Roach
11th Mar 2015 (#)

sorry I don't know where you live but divorce is often very necessary and I am saying this as counselor therapist. Two people should not stay together if it is so bad. Yes the kids are hurt but they are more traumatized seeing their parents arguing and fighting all the time, or never seeing one parent because he or she never comes home. I am divorced and though it was very hard it was necessary and I would do it again because my decision was the right one, many people in Canada have the same kind of thing going on. We do not live in mystery just because we got married.

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author avatar Frama
11th Jun 2015 (#)

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