Disappointed Marriages! Quick Steps

T.Moses By T.Moses, 31st Jan 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
Posted in Wikinut>Family>Relationships

You and your spouse seemed to have so much in common- before you got married, that is. Now, disillusioned has driven a waste between you, making you feel more like cell mates than a soul mates.

What Can Both Paties Do?

You can improve your relationship.

FOCUS ON YOUR SPOUSE'S GOOD QUALITIES.
Try all this practical step. You can write down three positive qualities that your mate posseses. Then keep the list with you at all time, perhaps on the back of a small wedding picture or in a mobile device. As time goes by, regularly refer to this list as to the reasons why you married your spouse.

PLAN SPECIAL TIME TOGETHER.
Remember that, before you were married, you both set aside time doing nearly all things together. Reflect at that time, that dating was new and exciting, but it was not left to chance. While not do something similar now, plan events together, such as occasions, weddings, etc. Doing so can help and will surely be great in resolving problems.

DISCUSS YOUR FEELINGS.
if you have been hurt by your spouse's words or actions, why overlook the matter? If not , do not play games by resorting to silent treatment. Calmly talk things out with your mate as soon as you can.

DISCERN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOUR FEELINGS AND YOUR SPOUSE INTENTIONS.
no doubt, and likely neither one of you ever intend to hurt he other. Assure your spouse of this by sincerely apologizing for any hurt feeling you may have caused. Then discuss what specific things you both can do avoid unwittingly causing hurt feelings.

Conclusively,

BE REALISTIC IN YOUR EXPECTATIONS
The Bible should be your most guild. It direct married ones that they will have tribulations in their flesh. When you experience such tribulations, do not hastily conclude that your marriage was a mistake. Instead, work with your mate as team to resolve differences and continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely.- Colossians 3:13

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author avatar Ron Flowers
1st Feb 2014 (#)

Some very good advice, Mr. Moses. I would add that, in any relationship, it can't be all about me.

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author avatar Lady Aiyana
1st Feb 2014 (#)

Tell them not to cheat and beat the spouse/child and the rest can be handled accordingly. Personal experience...

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