Child Behavior Help - Trying Times For Parents

Lucas Uren By Lucas Uren, 22nd Dec 2010 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Learning to better manage a child who is constantly misbehaving is not easy, but if you try to understand what causes certain behaviors in children you can eliminate much of the stress involved.

Misbehavior Can Be Very Traumatic For Parents

The first time your baby starts to crawl is probably the first instance of changing child behaviour, followed by walking, talking, and then the terrible two's and potty training. These can all be very trying times, even if it is not your first time.

What do you do when these changes begin to become a problem?

Well, of course the first possible answer would be to just deal with each problem as they prop up, but then the problem of not knowing how is going to become an obstacle. Therefore, learning how to manage such problems before they actually become a problem is the next possible answer.

There are many great books available on the topic of child behaviour and child behaviour problems. Books that will provide answers to your questions and help you to work through your childs changing behaviour. I could recommend a few, but I won't. At least not right now!

The Internet is a good optional resource for sourcing information on many different kinds of child behaviours, fast too!

Here are a few ways that you can manage your child's behaviour, though!

Learn To Be A Proactive Parent - What this means is that as parents, we need to be forever diligent. For example, A new crawling baby is going to get into all kinds of tight little corners, under tables, behind sofa's and if you have older kids, then you are going to have to do a run around and pick up anything that is smaller than a matchbox. Else your crawling baby is going to try and put those small toys and or pieces of toys into his or her mouth.

Try New And Different Ways Of Doing Things - If your child is 2 years of age or older, they may have some particular ways of doing things already. Like sleeping in the same bed as you for example. Most parents would like to get there own bed back, so why not just get up and go and sleep in your child's bed after they have come and gotten into bed with you. It's like musical chairs, only with beds, I know. But it worked for my child. He became used to sleeping on his own after just a week of musical beds.

Understand that even if your child's behaviour is not normal, that your child still is normal. It's like everything else in life - a little bit of trial and error, a little tweaking and most of all patience and understanding.

For more information on how to better manage child behavior problems, visit: www.ahappychildguide.info

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Behavior, Behavior Help, Behavior Modification, Behavior Modification Techniques, Behaviors, Parenting, Parenting Advice, Parenting Tips

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I am an Australian living in Japan and I write about varying topics for various sites (some my own) on the internet.

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