Be Gentle To Me

D in The DarlingStarred Page By D in The Darling, 25th Dec 2010 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
Posted in Wikinut>Family>Domestic Violence & Abuse

Just like a man, a woman too got a heart that can break and feelings that can be hurt.
Abuse isn't only physical.

The Ones We Love Hurt Us The Most

I now humbly invite you to take a look at one of the unfortunate things that occur in our societies today at a domestic level. This is one phenomena which proves that those we love are the ones that hurt us the most.

I'm talking about domestic Violence. What do we gain by inflicting pain on those that love us? Do we really enjoy seeing their tears? Can we gain any form of respect by striking fear in the hearts of those that love us? How can you say you love someone when that person fears you? How does a man feel when his wife recoils back into her shell the moment she sees him instead of rushing into his arms and welcome him back home with a kiss?

We can no longer turn a blind eye to this. Would someone therefore be wrong to say Abuse against women has to stop?! We know there are some abusive women out there and that men who get abused by their spouses remain mum about it and continue to suffer inside because big boys don't cry! Though there's no excuse for women being abusive, the number of such women and that of men suffering from that abuse is realistically negligible as compared to the rampant abuse unleashed by men against women and extends to children.

To the big boys; well, I guess it's time to grow up and become men. Men do cry. Crying is part of being human and not a measure of one's strength. Restrain and composure; keeping a balanced head in difficult and tempting times and doing the right thing are. So, instead of bottling up your feelings and become sick inside and upstairs, before you burst and blow up and mess up everything around you, seek help!

Be Aggressive and Get Paid

That's what real men do.They don't take their frustrations out on somebody else let alone those they love. If you're aggressive by nature, why not become a real man by making some money and make yourself and your family proud by turning your aggression into rare admirable skills and become a world champion in socially acceptable violent sports like boxing and wrestling?

Be a Hero!

When you do those sports, remember when you come home, those hands are not for fighting. They are for hugging and embracing your wife and children. In the bedroom, those hands are for holding and clinging onto each other, that's with your wife while sharing that very special moment of passion.

When you seek your conjugal rights, remember not to trample upon hers. Love is about two people sharing and enjoying the magic of the rhythm played inside their bodies whenever their two bodies come into a union. Give her attention and listen to her. Hear her out when she says:

Be Gentle To Me

I have a heart to give
And needs to be satisfied
You can do that to me
With me you can fulfill
Your deepest fantasies
Babe I’ll let it all
Hang out for you
Do me the way (You like it most)

Be gentle to me
I have a heart that can break
And feelings that can be hurt
Be gentle to me
Be gentle to me
I have a heart that can break
And feelings that can be hurt
Please be gentle to me

Abuse Isn't Only Physical

Strip me to the bone
Touch me wherever
You wanna touch me

Babe the way you
Look, walk and talk
All that can hurt
Abuse isn’t only physical
Be a real man (Lay your hands on me)

Be gentle to me
I have a heart that can break
And feelings that can be hurt
Be gentle to me
Be gentle to me
I have a heart that can break
And feelings that can be hurt
Please be gentle to me

I Love You So Much

Looking at your dimples
Gives me goose pimples
I love you so much
At times I blackout
My heart you can pluck out
And paste on your wall
To see how much I love you

Be gentle to me
I have a heart that can break
And feelings that can be hurt
Be gentle to me
Be gentle to me
I have a heart that can break
And feelings that can be hurt
Please be gentle to me

Touch me feel me
Babe give it to me
Get physical with me
But be gentle to me
yeah!
But be gentle to me
Be gentle to me
Yeah!

Isn't that beautiful? Those that say this is a must have track ain't wrong at all and here's the full track: http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/be-gentle-to-me/id341636979?i=341637013

To men, be real men and lay your hands on her like real men do, that's hoisting your woman up onto bed but be Gentle to her, she has a heart that can break and feelings that can be hurt! The track produced by my own cousin;Leman. Enjoy The magic of Dyman and Leman and pass on the message! It's about time!

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Abuse, Abused Wife, Abusive Relationships, Comfort, Dyman Khonneth Yahaya, Happiness, Love, Lyrics, Man, Satisfaction, Sharing, Song, Sweet G-Luv, Tears, Woman

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author avatar D in The Darling
Degree in Psychology & Philosophy. As a lover, I'm sincere. As a Philosopher, I tell the truth. As a Psychologist, I speak my mind. As a man, I accept my weakness; not holy. I'm damn wicked at this!

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author avatar christopheranton
27th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks for the inspirational article,
full of wise words.
And thank you for the video of Mohammed Ali, one of the greatest sportsmen there has ever been.

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author avatar D in The Darling
27th Dec 2010 (#)

Chris,
Thanks. Coming from you that means so much more! Once again, I look up to great guys like you!

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author avatar F E FITCHETT
27th Dec 2010 (#)

Excellent article!

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author avatar D in The Darling
29th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks,
that means so much to me!

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author avatar angelnjuly
27th Dec 2010 (#)

A very good write Dinthedarling. I believe abusing someone in all sorts is not good. And this article should be taken seriously. Tyhank you for the share...

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author avatar D in The Darling
29th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks Angelnjuly.
It's an article that a lot of people have shared on Facebook! The song itself is a hit!

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author avatar James R. Coffey
27th Dec 2010 (#)

Very interesting. (Enjoyed the Ali reference.)

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author avatar D in The Darling
29th Dec 2010 (#)

Oh,
Thanks a lot! Ali, of course, I like that part too! A hero out of whipping other men's asses! Not his beloved!!

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author avatar Denise O
28th Dec 2010 (#)

Well written, I culd tell your whole heart was in it. thank you for that.
It really helped it hit home for the reader.
Thank you for sharing.:)

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author avatar D in The Darling
29th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks.
I wrote that in support of the cause: "Real Men don't beat Women" I'm happy you like it!

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author avatar LOVERME
29th Dec 2010 (#)

ur sooooooo wonderful
a true lover uuuuuuuuuuu gr888poetry urs

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author avatar D in The Darling
29th Dec 2010 (#)

There's no darling without a D.
What's my name? D In The Darling, baby.
Thanks Lovelyhoney. I hope you also enjoyed listening to the track.

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author avatar LOVERME
31st Dec 2010 (#)

actually i don't enjoy
the benefit of email
so i can't really know
who has written what for me and i'm partially deaf too
glad u called upon me

if u want to msg me
please do so on my latest work
as that is the one i always see

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author avatar D in The Darling
31st Dec 2010 (#)

Good stuff Lovelyhoney!
I'll definitely do that! I'm happy to have a friend like you. We Can Do This!

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author avatar Retired
17th Jan 2011 (#)

Outstanding piece of work.

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author avatar D in The Darling
17th Jan 2011 (#)

Thanks Martin!
It means so much to me to hear you say such words.Let's keep supporting each other. God bless!

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author avatar The Bookman
18th Jan 2011 (#)

Nice! Well said!

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author avatar D in The Darling
19th Jan 2011 (#)

Oh,
The Bookman! Thanks a lot. That's a load of encouragement.

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author avatar Vernazoa
3rd Sep 2011 (#)

People of all faiths come to this page. God is gentle to us all.
Thank you. I love gentle love.

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author avatar D in The Darling
4th Sep 2011 (#)

Thanks Vermozoa.
God bless!

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