Bad Idea to Remarry Former Spouse

Bill Harbin Jr By Bill Harbin Jr, 22nd Jun 2014 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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The saying “Been there and done that” can apply to thoughts of remarrying a spouse. Learn the reality of trying to make something happen differently the second time around.

Bad Idea to Remarry Former Spouse

If you have thoughts about marrying your former spouse again read on to hear my story of how this bad idea can turn into a nightmare. Statistics show 60% or these remarriages end in divorce again. Reality of a rekindled relationship can be exciting yet painful and turn into a good learning experience. Pay attention in life and learn how to avoid relationship stress.

I Think I Am Allergic to Mornings

After being divorced for 25 years I received a phone call one morning from my ex-spouse. Her sister had quadruplets when we first married and one of them was getting married in the area where I lived. We had a good conversation and she joined me at the wedding and rekindled our feelings.

After 25 years people remain the same in many ways. She loved to call me at 6 am. I do not do mornings well but knew we were different that way. It is alright for a couple to differ in some preferences. I got over my objection to being cheerful in the morning but that was not a big problem.

The Real Excitement Begins

A whirlwind romance quickly became a new commitment. She moved to my area and I put a down payment on a house for us. She had three kids that seemed to be a joy and everything looked like a dream. That quickly became a nightmare.

Her father wanted to control our lives like we were kids again. I wanted a period of adjustment before the wedding for her to live in the new house and I would not move. He said we must get married immediately and meddled in our lives. The kids began to show me great dislike. Credit card debt from her spending grew in enormous amounts.

Values and Beliefs Became Clear

Differences in a few feelings can be overcome in a relationship. Core values and beliefs are a whole different matter. I discovered that love does not conquer all problems. One of her daughters got pregnant and they celebrated and rewarded her wild behavior.

I learned that our values and beliefs were way different. I canceled the wedding. It is better to get out of a relationship when you see red flags than to stay and suffer a bad life. I have moved on to a great relationship and it appears she has done the same.


Idea, Ideal Love, Marriage, Marriage Counseling, Relationships, Remarriage, Spouse

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Bill Harbin Jr is a freelance writer that had a book published in addition to hundreds of articles. His practical, down to earth advice can be used to find not only value, but perhaps a better life.

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author avatar snerfu
24th Jun 2014 (#)

Good for you, life is too precious to waste on contemplations.

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9th Dec 2014 (#)

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