5 Tests To Find A Right Partner Or Spouse

Palak Gupta By Palak Gupta, 14th Oct 2016 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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While serching for the best spouce, every one tries to meet such an individual who can fill the voidness of life and become the partner for the rest of life. Actually every body of us is in search of the partner who adores every little part of who we are and loves. A perfect Life Partner is always needed to discover our own self-esteem and self-worth in life. So, lets know how to find a perfect life partner with these 5 Tests

How to Find a perfect Life Partner

“A great spouse loves you exactly as you are. And extraordinary spouse helps you grow; inspires you to be, do and give your very best.” – Fawn Weaver

Partner or Spouse, in today’s world, is far from being synonym with “bread winner” or “homemaker” - it’s about the one who can fill the emotional void in you. Even if we are educated, independent and successful, getting a right spouse is be-all and end-all goal for so many of us. All of us are in search of the one who loves and adores every little part of who we are. Unless we find the one, we are always searching a partner who finds our little quirks and habits lovable, the one who will pull you in for a kiss even if you behave like a know-it-all. A perfect Life Partner is essential to discover your own self-esteem and self-worth in life.

But the question arises that how can we find the right partner What are the things that we need to know about the spouse To know the answers of these questions you just have to test the one on the factors discussed below:

Test #1
Love: Is It In The Air
-He loves me, he loves me not
-She loves me, she loves me not

Before being sure that the guy or the girl has fallen head-over-heels for you don’t forget to check the following hard-to-miss signs:

-Your partner loves gazing into your eyes
-Your spouse loves to learn about you
-Your companion is caring towards you
-Your mate doesn’t shy loving you in public
-Your spouse loves introducing you to friends
-Your lover loves spending time with you
-Your partner loves talking about the future having “you” in it
-Your spouse wants to make you happy

Test #2
Compatibility: What’s Common Between You Both
Relationship expert and clinical psychologist Seema Hingorrany says,

"When you decide to spend your life with someone, you must look at things that the two of you would love to do together…This will make your life interesting."

It is not to say that all your interest should be matching with your mate, but it would be amazing if some would. You both are compatible if:

-There is a spark between you both
-You share common interests
-There is a lot to talk about
-You have similar values and ethics
-You both listen to each other carefully
-You stand on the identical relationship page
If you love to travel together to the similar spots
You try to know and make each other’s families happy

Test #3
Maturity: Is Your Partner Mature Enough
Nothing can be more annoying than being in a relationship with someone who is not mature enough. It is important to have a mature spouse as it shows that you partner is emotionally stable. Maturity helps in developing a much tighter bond in a communion. Following are the points that you can suss out if your spouse fit in that bill.

You can take a chill pill if your partner:

-Has a steady career
-Can handle the responsibilities well
-Doesn’t shy from commitments
-Has little to no arguments
-Communicates effectively
-Doesn’t hesitate in asking for apology and forgiving
-Is thoughtful, considerate and can make decisions on his own

Test #4
Respect: Is There Humbleness or Domination
Being in love is definitely not enough, a relationship must have the significant ingredient of ‘RESPECT’ in it. You need to choose someone you has the ability to acknowledge ‘YOU’ as “YOU” for the rest of the life. Respect holds as much importance as love in a relationship.

There exists humbleness, not domination if your partner:

-Listens to you and admire your opinions
-Is proud of you as who you are
-Doesn’t dominate or try to rule over you
-Appreciate your physical boundaries
-Responsive and reliable towards you
-Doesn’t inspects the places you go or with whom you hang out
-Doesn’t strike below the belt whenever some quarrel takes birth

Test #5
Loyalty: It’s rare – If You Find It, Appreciate It!
It is often rightly said that the crowning characteristic of love is “loyalty”. Loyalty is one of the significant tests to be done to check whether the one you think to be your mate is true behind your back or not. If there is loyalty in between you both, it is indeed a step of finding security and happiness in your relationship.

You have found the one if your partner:

-Makes you feel wanted and needed
-Doesn’t give too much heed to the one of opposite sex
-Gives you complete access to the cell phone or PC
-Doesn’t have a roving eye
-Prefers to hang out with you
-Is always on your side
-Is protective when it comes to you

Besides being independent, there are certain human needs that cannot fulfil on one’s own. Finding the right partner heals your very own soul and gives you the true worth of yourself and the clarity on life. So, before accepting or confessing ‘the three magical words’ to the one you are looking for, consider the above tests and you will land in front of the right partner or spouse.


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26th Dec 2016 (#)

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