4 Steps That Will Teach You How To Get Your Ex Back

laluls212 By laluls212, 8th Jul 2010 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/1kvb58ky/
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Did you just go through a nasty break up? Do you keep asking yourself how to get your ex back?

Get your ex back

Just about every adult has went through some type of break up. Most explore the possibility of just moving on with their life verses doing things to try to get their ex back. However if you get tired of playing the victim role and want to be proactive at getting back your ex, there are some things you can do. Breaking up is part of the relationship game, but it doesn't mean that there isn't a chance to reconcile.

Identify What Went Wrong

In almost all cases there are ways you can get your ex back, but you have to know the proper steps required to do this. First of all, you need to relect on what happened that caused the both of you to split up in the first place. It's impossible to change anything that happened before. But you can educate yourself on your past mistakes so you don't make the same mistakes in the future.

Change Your Behaviors

There could have been just one catastrophic event that caused this break up, or you may have a pattern of behavior that your ex finds repulsive and just can't live with. Whatever the reason is, it's important to reflect on specific instances that might have led up to this, so when they come up again you'll know how to handle them better. In most cases it is possible to get your ex back, however, you need to know what went wrong so you don't keep repeating these same behaviors that led to the breakup.


Don't Come Off Desperate

Another important thing to remember is to not come off as a desperate person. Most people have deep feelings for the ex after a break up, but if you make this obvious it could end up pushing them away even further. The key here is to remain strong, and make it known to your ex that life is great by yourself. Your chances improve ten fold for reuniting with your ex if you let those around you know you're adjusting fine without them.

Show Them You're Strong

If you try to get revenge on your ex or try to make them jealous, you are just digging a deeper hole for yourself. As a matter of fact, these are the worst behaviors you can engage in. This might give them a clear message that they need to move on and not focus on you at all. The key here is to let you're ex know you're doing well, but you don't want to over do it to the point where they don't feel comfortable getting back together with you again. If you let them know how confident and strong you are, they will be attracted by this strength and will want to be with you again.

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Behaviors, Break Ups, Desperate, How To Get Your Ex Back, Nasty

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Graduate in Electronics and Communication Engg and one of the moderators of Wikinut, I do have an obsession towards writing article.. Enjoys them and gets thrilled when someone comments..

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author avatar drelayaraja
9th Jul 2010 (#)

Very good share.

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author avatar Melissa Dawn
9th Jul 2010 (#)

Good advice and very well written.

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author avatar windlady
9th Oct 2010 (#)

Do you think it is worth getting back? There is a saying that never ride a horse that you kicks you off for the first time. For me I believe in finding new love again.

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author avatar Humza
15th Jan 2011 (#)

nice share but I dont think that its gonna work like that! Because thats what we should have considered before the break up, but it can also work sometimes, but usually it doest!
thnx for the share

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author avatar laluls212
20th Jan 2011 (#)

:-)

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author avatar R. Person
16th Feb 2011 (#)

Good advice! It really depends on the person. If the issues that caused the breakup weren't resolved, then it's obviously not going to last, but if people are willing to work through their problems, then there's a relatively good chance of success.

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author avatar laluls212
17th Feb 2011 (#)

Thank you for your comment Rachel.

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