10 Reasons Why Men Cheat - a Must Read for Women

Blunt Head By Blunt Head, 6th Feb 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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Men cheat for many reasons, some even cheat for no reason. Below are the top 10 reasons why men cheat:

10 Reasons Why Men Cheat

1. Boredom. When the sexual relationship has dried up and gone sour, men will look elsewhere for bedroom fun and excitement.

2. Revenge. If he finds out that you have cheated on him sexually or emotionally, he’ll do tenfold to you what you did to him.

3. You gained weight. What man in his right mind would enjoy having sex with a fat woman. You have gained 30 pounds since marrying him and you’re comfortable with your chubby look, guess what, he’s not! No matter how many times he tells you that your weight-gain doesn’t matter to him, don’t ever believe him, he just doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. He’s probably thinking of nailing that cute intern at work.

4. Abuse. For those women who abuse their men physically, emotionally and withhold sex from them, it probably won’t come across as a surprise if you find him in your bed with another woman.

5. You’re not young and pretty anymore. You have aged horribly, no man wants to have sex with a woman who looks way too old beyond her years.

6. You’re not a tight-fit down there. No man wants a woman whose bits and pieces below the belt is all loose and spent. Consider getting surgery, or a vagina tightening stick and cream.

7. Lack of confidence. When a man has low self-esteem issues or going through a mid-life crisis, he’s more likely to cheat with countless scores of women just to prove his muscularity and macho-ness to himself.

8. Lust. Men and women lust equally the same, but its men who tend to give in to their lust.

9. A dare. You’ll be surprised how many men have been dared by their best friends to bed their sexy secretary.

10. Sex addiction. If your man is a sex addict, I guarantee you that you’re probably the 8th person he had sex with today.

Find out why women cheat, click here > (http://beyondjane.com/women/six-reasons-why-women-cheat-a-must-read-for-men/)


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author avatar Denise O
9th Feb 2011 (#)

Now, now Blunt, you seem quite hard on women and give men every excuse to go astray. I am sorry but, I can not go along with you on this one. I might not look like I did when I married my hubby while in my 20's but, our love is far past the outside and more towards the inside. When you find that, then the physical is just not as important. Do not get me wrong, he still rocks my world and I rock his.
Thank you for sharing.:)

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author avatar Teagal
30th Apr 2012 (#)

The guy writing this is like this. Not all men! My hubby gained weight, am I suppose to jump in bed with his best friend cause of it? heck no! If I gained weight my man would love me just the way I am. He married all of me for better or worse.

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author avatar Melissa Dawn
10th Feb 2011 (#)

Dude, your article started off good and you made some good points. Number 5? Men age too darlin' sometimes not so well. As for six, well outrageous and I'm suprsied Wikinut let this article pass.

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author avatar D in The Darling
20th Mar 2011 (#)

Number six: well I had to help a friend who was about to divorce his wife. Premature ejaculators normally say that. Because they don't take long, They don't understand that a woman in love and ready for her man always feels like that. When a woman is feeling you, that's your sign. If she hard there, you're basically raping her.

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author avatar R. Person
16th Feb 2011 (#)

This is an interesting article to read, but I think those are all superficial reasons. If a man would cheat on a woman for those reasons (or at all), he's not a good man to be with. Also, don't forget that men start to look bad with age: beer bellies, and couch potato marathons are not attractive either.

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author avatar Tranquilpen
16th Feb 2011 (#)

Man asks his wife;" will you love me when I'm old and gray"? he answers; Well of course I do Honey. And I mean that, in the nicest possible way, God bless all women, love you all.

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author avatar D in The Darling
20th Mar 2011 (#)

Beautiful comment Tranquilpen.

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author avatar D in The Darling
20th Mar 2011 (#)

Love is a give and take thing. It takes two for a relationship to work and cheating is not one of the things that the two do to make it work. I like your article. I'm writing a book on the same ten reasons but more on the psychological aspects. Some of your points are debatable and that's the beauty of it. I'm inclined to believe you meant it that way. Cheating, well let's hear the reasons why men go ballistic the moment his woman also cheats. Thanks for sharing buddy.

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author avatar AnnH
10th May 2011 (#)

Nice post, very interesting.

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author avatar stephaniemorris26
21st Jan 2012 (#)

True love is not about looks it is about how the person is on the inside. If a man truly loves you there is nothing that could make him go astray.

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author avatar bronnamdi
21st Jan 2012 (#)

I am inclined to think the article is referring to relationships other than marriage.

I am sure I am not the same physically now as I was when I married my wife. She has also changed.

Marriage is about the long haul with all the changes that occur.

As Denise O mentioned above, the inside matters more than the outside as you age.

The man or woman who wants to sleep around will always find a reason to do so. Similarly, the person who sticks with one partner will equally find reasons for doing so.

Where do you belong?

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author avatar Retired
2nd May 2012 (#)


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author avatar Blunt Head
11th Jul 2012 (#)

The truth hurts but all men think about sex almost everyday...I don't mean to offend anymore but you'll be surprised to find out what the pope would be thinking when a drop-dead gorgeous woman in a skin-tight outfit would cross his path...again I don't mean to offend...I'm a devoted Christian myself...WHAT COUNTS IS THAT WE DON'T ACT ON THOSE FEELINGS

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author avatar Kingwell
4th May 2013 (#)

Interesting article but I think you went a bit too far. Not all men think about sex all the time and I'm sure that many women eye the bodies of handsome men other than their husbands.sometimes. A relationship is not all about sex either. We learn to love the inner person too.

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