Women that turn men gays....just an opinion
In a society that is fast paced we have daily grinds that are interspersed with relationships.Most well known being between men and women. The following article is a mere viewpoint on women types that may drive men to have gay tendencies.
He likes males over females.
A proud claim and a fashion trend like adherence to 'being gay' has gained a prominence in today's societies like never before.To admit that you are a gay is not a matter of shame or guilt but rather affords you a sort of protected and kind status in society as a fledgling minority. Argument that does the round is 'it is a natural feeling and suppressing such attraction is like forcing a person to eat bread when he wants cakes and censoring is like indulging in a huge human right violation'.This article is not going to pass judgments on if this is the right or even a natural trend but rather look into one major factor that might have caused it.
Professionally successful women with financial freedom,feminists that tout equality with males on most aspects and rapid opening up of sexual norms ,with the latter being aided by gross and mass commercialization of societies world wide may be the reasons for this trend.Professional women,surviving in cut throat commercial spaces are getting career oriented. They may not avow a nod with feminism but sooner than later they acquire traits that are similar to feminists at least on a shallow and symbolic level. Career progress is of prime importance and they use 'relationships' with men as tools toward it. Their attitudes turn matter of fact and they no longer present a typical 'comely,soft,romantic,easily accessible,sexually exploitable' target to men. A majority of men get pushed out by such emasculation cum commercialization of women.The aversion is compounded by the additional fact that they have no easy access to such women.Such women go for those males that are pertinent and important in their work and home spaces or even for those other women that are 'softs' in a lesbian relationship. This forces such men to equivalently search for 'soft' or 'hard' types within males as an outlet for pent up sexual energies and relational frustrations.They adopt attitudes that help satisfy each other and establish solidarity. It is not uncommon to observe 'open to all kinds of sexual exploitation' in 'soft' as well as 'hard' gays. This makes for the dream and demand for such women. Sooner than later it gathers preference for symbolic male preference as a means of protection against the extreme 'bitchiness' and 'frustration' that may result from a straight relationship. Straights being in majority still offer a very competitive market place for such relationships to foster;thus gay proclivities seem to be a fear and defense response from rejection,frustration and competition that entail a successful straight relationship. In addition being gay is unique.
My incomplete opinion ....lolz ..have your say please