Women that turn men gays....just an opinion
By writingforfun, 3rd Apr 2012 | Follow this author
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In a society that is fast paced we have daily grinds that are interspersed with relationships.Most well known being between men and women. The following article is a mere viewpoint on women types that may drive men to have gay tendencies.
He likes males over females.
A proud claim and a fashion trend like adherence to 'being gay' has gained a prominence in today's societies like never before.To admit that you are a gay is not a matter of shame or guilt but rather affords you a sort of protected and kind status in society as a fledgling minority. Argument that does the round is 'it is a natural feeling and suppressing such attraction is like forcing a person to eat bread when he wants cakes and censoring is like indulging in a huge human right violation'.This article is not going to pass judgments on if this is the right or even a natural trend but rather look into one major factor that might have caused it.
Professionally successful women with financial freedom,feminists that tout equality with males on most aspects and rapid opening up of sexual norms ,with the latter being aided by gross and mass commercialization of societies world wide may be the reasons for this trend.Professional women,surviving in cut throat commercial spaces are getting career oriented. They may not avow a nod with feminism but sooner than later they acquire traits that are similar to feminists at least on a shallow and symbolic level. Career progress is of prime importance and they use 'relationships' with men as tools toward it. Their attitudes turn matter of fact and they no longer present a typical 'comely,soft,romantic,easily accessible,sexually exploitable' target to men. A majority of men get pushed out by such emasculation cum commercialization of women.The aversion is compounded by the additional fact that they have no easy access to such women.Such women go for those males that are pertinent and important in their work and home spaces or even for those other women that are 'softs' in a lesbian relationship. This forces such men to equivalently search for 'soft' or 'hard' types within males as an outlet for pent up sexual energies and relational frustrations.They adopt attitudes that help satisfy each other and establish solidarity. It is not uncommon to observe 'open to all kinds of sexual exploitation' in 'soft' as well as 'hard' gays. This makes for the dream and demand for such women. Sooner than later it gathers preference for symbolic male preference as a means of protection against the extreme 'bitchiness' and 'frustration' that may result from a straight relationship. Straights being in majority still offer a very competitive market place for such relationships to foster;thus gay proclivities seem to be a fear and defense response from rejection,frustration and competition that entail a successful straight relationship. In addition being gay is unique.
My incomplete opinion ....lolz ..have your say please
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3rd Apr 2012 (#)
Kindly note that this is only a incomplete view of the subject. A host of other factors like stability of marriage,biology of men and women,age of men and women,education and skill sets of men and women,media,music,politics,religion,drugs and even improving infrastructure and technology impact the issue. This list is also a limited one.
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3rd Apr 2012 (#)
Wow, you have nailed the whole truth about it but I would like to hear the rest of the story. Part !!?
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3rd Apr 2012 (#)
oh! really would you wish me to pen in a magnum opus on the topic...........
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3rd Apr 2012 (#)
Interesting. I have an opinion about it and hope you will read mine.
Thank you.
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3rd Apr 2012 (#)
please do let me know where that is expressed I would hasten to read that
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11th Apr 2012 (#)
writingforfun:
I have just completed the page. "Teenagers: Choices and Consequences."
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
I haven't posted it yet and if everyone would stop making all these comments, I could get down to writing something. (Joke)
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
are they commenting you profusely hhhaaaha
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
Sometimes they are not gay or lesbian but more like celibate or asexual wherein they just don't want to associate with either men or women alike and you are right, sometimes the personal experience whilst being normal (or otherwise) does play a very important role and the values that are instilled and embedded in them too. There are many around in this world who go through this and suffer punishments for asexuality just because they are different....
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
Personally like books and music over either gender... Got burnt very badly for being friendly with either genders (first at age 14 and the other in 2010) and it didn't help much with a friend maligning my name around town to fund his pleasures of the tail... I know, cunning fox with a tail in front... None the less, this is personal experience... I am into music (with a bad marriage) BTW, so here is an example.
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
bad marriages also encourage deviant sexual behavior on either side of gender.An ennui and frustration builds up and that looks out for escape.Result is such same sex choices where solidarity gets strengthened abetted by no holds barred behavior
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
I prefer only women. Great post anyway.Enjoyed it.
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
consider this. Young age.good job.young mind.racy stressful target oriented lifestyle. Drugs and alcohol to reduce stress. An extra energy bravado. A symbolic association with hep music and associated culture.membership of formal informal sex tagged groups. These are most vulnerable to gay orientations as they see straight relations as vanilla and unexciting. What I mentioned as an attitude of fashion.Anybody been there.This excludes those that are devious and manipulative like lady Aiyana quotes as having suffered.
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8th Apr 2012 (#)
I do agree that young people nowadays are searching for excitement and dont realize that it is within them to enjoy their lives without having to do drugs and the suchlike..
to be quite honest Lady A can be a bit of a bitch!!!
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9th Apr 2012 (#)
Lady A?
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
Fun page, wf. Thank you.:)
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
Fun read
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4th Apr 2012 (#)
hahaha is it now....ohhhh......
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5th Apr 2012 (#)
An interesting read, many thanks.
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5th Apr 2012 (#)
thanks dear for reading
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6th Apr 2012 (#)
Interesting...thanks.
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6th Apr 2012 (#)
i was wondering what other opinions may seem like lolz
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6th Apr 2012 (#)
Interesting article.
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6th Apr 2012 (#)
I am eager to get opinions on this before I slam in next installment here so please
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8th Apr 2012 (#)
thank you for writing this...much wisdom there is in it and much I agree with...look forward to next installment...
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10th Apr 2012 (#)
Fascinating..Never comprehended the factors you mentioned as being contributors to men turning gay.
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10th Apr 2012 (#)
well thats my view point..I would like to know yours..thanks for the comments
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11th Apr 2012 (#)
So many different reasons for it..some people are born that way. Others are moulded by society or personal circumstance and experiences. I personally think chemicals in our daily environment must have an effect on unborn embryos. That could be one factor. I've read articles that scientists are looking into this.
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