What Goes On Inside The Head Of A Married Man (Part One)

D in The Darling By D in The Darling, 31st Oct 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/2djsstc3/
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Even if you can turn all the lights on and add some candles,
a man will never know or feel the weight of his manhood. A woman who handles
it is the one who feels the massiveness of that load. This means; the foolish decisions a husband makes could be part of his nature; his wife is therefore the one that feels every inch of the pinch.

What Went Into Him?

"Is he the same sweet and highly responsible man I got married to?” A wife often asks herself. It seems like being on the same wave length came to an end once they got married. A slightest hint on his thoughts might help her understand his decisions. To do that, listen to this song first; "This Is What I Want" http://www.broadjam.com/player/player.php?play_file=62866_546253

Isn't that what happens in a happy relationship? Now that you have a clue let's take it from the top. So, with a scalpel in our hands, let’s go to the chapel theatre and dissect a married man’s brain. Pastor Patrick’s our head neurologist. His daughter, Patricia had run away from her matrimonial home. Her mother being a wife herself; was sympathetic. In his eyes though, her statements didn’t hold water. Since she too sought similar answers, he thought she’s biased.

Thinks His Wife Is The Best In The World

“He’s insensitive and selfish,” Felicia continued. “Even when she’s sick, he thinks between her pains she’d find some strength just to squeeze him in for a quick one. I’m through with this.”

“Not so fast,” he said. “If you don’t mind, would you please remind me; is it over eighty percent of a man’s brain that’s occupied by thoughts about sex? That’s just any man even the one who isn’t sure of his next meal. For a married man, his thoughts are no longer fantasies and scattered imaginations. They’re lucid and real; about a particular woman he can feel, hold and have. They’re about an amazing human being he thinks is the best in the world; the one he can't have enough of. Every thought about her, ignites a fire deep inside his heart. A deep burning sensation, its fumes arouse a desire full of passion. He’s crazy about her. She gets it in total submission, humility and compassion. Its depth can only be understood by a wife who’s still deeply in love with him.”

Thinks He Married Her To satisfy His Needs

“Crazy, yes. so, what does he know about humility and compassion?”Felicia said.
“He doesn’t care about her well being. I’m concerned about him and his relentless hormones. He’s restless in bed till he gets a round. Is it sound? He’s so hooked on sex. My daughter has cooked for him so many times even in the middle of the night. He has a tendency of coming home late too. He’s such a burden. How can he turn her into his sex slave?" Is that right?

"Sex is a physiological need. Like thirst and hunger, need urgent satisfaction, he thinks she's there to do that. Sex is a major item on a married man’s menu. If she can give him water to drink and food to eat till he's full, why not sex? He thinks that’s why he surrendered his heart and soul to her. Of course he didn’t marry her just because she’s good in bed. Her kitchen skills double the thrills. But if he really wanted a woman to cook for him, he thinks he’d have taken his mother who’s been cooking for him for his entire life.”

He Thinks A Man Cannot Live On Bread Alone

He turned to his daughter and said: “My girl; be brave. You’re not a slave at all. When a man loves you, you become his only prescribed dose he’s to take three times a day. Every time you’re near him, he looks at you as if you’ve just met. You’re not just magnetic but so hypnotizing. Seeing you makes him doze off and the bed starts calling again. At that time he can take anything but will let it pass.

Don't give up your home. Go back to your husband. He’s hooked on you not on sex. He might not feel the same way with another woman. Get worried if doesn’t touch you and spends more time in the kitchen than in the bedroom.”
“Dad, what?”
A married man thinks a man cannot live on bread alone! Remember words of the Lord?


Don't you think you'd listen to that song again? To Be Continued with a bang!

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Degree in Psychology & Philosophy. As a lover, I'm sincere. As a Philosopher, I tell the truth. As a Psychologist, I speak my mind. As a man, I accept my weakness; not holy. I'm damn wicked at this!

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author avatar Funom Makama
1st Nov 2011 (#)

I do not know what makes marriage so difficult and "out of the planet"~~ I, as a single guy is not scared but just wondering. You see couples living for 10 years dating and engaged in courtship, but once they are married, it would not last for even a year. Why is this? Is it cos of such thoughts stated in this article? This is really an excellent piece.
I love your expressions and the way you let this out. Why not check out my story and tell me what you think. It was a 5 minutes inspiration I wrote down and I am scared it may not be as great as I thought.
http://writing.wikinut.com/Just-in-a-split-second/1drekc8s/

Nice work and please keep it up

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author avatar D in The Darling
1st Nov 2011 (#)

Thanks a lot. This is just the beginning. I'll surely visit your page.

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author avatar Buzz
1st Nov 2011 (#)

Excellent, D. I'll be looking forward to the next installment.

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author avatar D in The Darling
2nd Nov 2011 (#)

And It's coming just the way you know it! Thanks Buzz!

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author avatar GV Rama Rao
2nd Nov 2011 (#)

It's unfair to paint all men with the same brush. Sex is a part but not so important part of a marriage. Believe me I have been married for forty five years to the same woman, and our marriage is going stronger by the day.

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author avatar D in The Darling
2nd Nov 2011 (#)

GV Rama Rao,
Maybe you're one of those men who can live on bread alone! Hahahahaha!

It's nice that you've admitted that sex is one of those important things. If you checked on the title well, you'd have seen that this is just the beginning; it's (Part One).

Believe me, this writer is an enlightened one and got enough ammunition to handle all aspects of this issue from sex to responsibilities.

So, keep reading.

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author avatar LOVERME
12th Nov 2011 (#)

U R Indian see foriegn life and then say friend

The biggest gift
GOD if there is one ..
gave to man including woman is the GIFT OF APPRECIATION ..
You are GIFTED

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author avatar D in The Darling
13th Nov 2011 (#)

Thanks my friend. That coming from you, means so much more.

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author avatar GV Rama Rao
2nd Nov 2011 (#)

It's unfair to paint all men with the same brush. Sex is a part but not so important part of a marriage. Believe me I have been married for forty five years to the same woman, and our marriage is going stronger by the day.

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author avatar D in The Darling
2nd Nov 2011 (#)

Let's not be in denial here. We know the reason why we marry. You don't say "I love you" and marry a woman just to take care of her. Do we?

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author avatar Retired
3rd Nov 2011 (#)

Ha Ha Ha, "Her kitchen skills double the thrills." LMAO... Best line in the world, D. Can't wait for the next one.

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author avatar D in The Darling
3rd Nov 2011 (#)

Thanks Silas,
It's steaming hot. Glad that you like that line! But best line in the world? Wow! you made me smile!

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author avatar Tranquilpen
3rd Nov 2011 (#)

Ditto Your comment to GV Rama. Been married to the same woman for 36 years.If sex walks out the marital door, damn sure someone's cheating, or perhaps a eunich. Thank you for calling a spade by it's real name D.

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author avatar D in The Darling
3rd Nov 2011 (#)

Tranquilpen,
Thanks my friend. For sure. Being faithful calls for more trips to the bedroom and that means one strips more for the other. That's why all faithful men are so demanding in bed coz that's the only bed they have!

I guess GV forgot to tell us the age at which sex ceases to be the main issue. You and I know that age when companionship takes a real swing!

That's when he takes his old wife for a walk more and does less of pillow talk!

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author avatar Bing
3rd Nov 2011 (#)

i believe it has to be mutual. the reasons a married man has in mind should be the same reasons a married woman should have.

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author avatar D in The Darling
4th Nov 2011 (#)

That's true.The only difference is that they are wired differently. So, their urges are at different levels.

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author avatar LOVERME
11th Nov 2011 (#)

All men all the time think
of the valley far down below and
when will they be able to conquer ...........mount eVe..r.. Rest that we all know ...

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author avatar D in The Darling
13th Nov 2011 (#)

The valley far below! Hahahahaha! It's not about conquering it. It's about having constant access to swim and any time one feels like.

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author avatar LOVERME
12th Nov 2011 (#)

The biggest gift
GOD if there is one ..
gave to man including woman is the GIFT OF APPRECIATION ..
You are GIFTED

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author avatar D in The Darling
13th Nov 2011 (#)

Of course God is there. And thanks a once again for this glowing comment. You're a huge talent in your own right.

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author avatar LOVERME
18th Nov 2011 (#)

ASK the Wikis .
why they keep me away
From you all .
They earn only on 437 pages of mine ,
that's not enough for Cancer Society ,
They should remove the embargo, they place ON ME,...
as they only are divine,....
with grace i bow to them for others folly .....,
Let you all not suffer,
lets get together
and share about what Wiki alone does not bother....

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author avatar Funom Makama
15th Nov 2011 (#)

hell my dear friend, here is another lovely poem, check it out..

http://www.wikinut.com/100th-article-abjectly-blind-even-with-the-perfect-sight/4t3x6nrn/vx_lgdpu/

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author avatar Songbird B
17th Nov 2011 (#)

An insightful article, D.. as your pages always are my friend...

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author avatar D in The Darling
17th Nov 2011 (#)

Thanks a lot Songbird B.
I'm coming over there right now. What's cooking in your kitchen?

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author avatar Denise O
23rd Nov 2011 (#)

I am with GV, why paint 'all' men in the same brush. People as individuals are different in many aspects. I just know, as I was raised, you should listen to your elders as they have lived and more than likely, have learned a lot more along the way, then us younger folks. Sex is nice but, it is not the very thing that keeps your husband from straying, it all comes down tot he 'relationship ' you have with this other person. Sex is just the icing on the cake. As always, thank you for sharing.:)

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author avatar D in The Darling
24th Nov 2011 (#)

Denise O,
Look at the title, it says part one.
We're taking it from the top. And being a man, sex is not the icing on the cake. It's the cake itself! Look forward to the next one!

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author avatar Madan G Singh
4th Dec 2011 (#)

Excellent Post

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author avatar Sheila Newton
4th Dec 2011 (#)

Oooh! Whe's part two coming out????
Sorry I haven't been in touch lately. Read my last post and you'll know why!

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author avatar D in The Darling
8th Dec 2011 (#)

Sheilla,
Thanks. I'm coming over there.

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author avatar D in The Darling
4th Dec 2011 (#)

Thanks Madan.
Any cold water in the fridge? I'm visiting your house today

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