Tips for newly married women: Things your husband doesn't like to hear

kafsoa By kafsoa, 5th Jun 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/29fjzq6u/
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Here are some tips for freshly married women to know things that she needs to avoid. Every woman has the right to talk when ever she wants, but in there are some phrases men don't like to hear and might make them nervous or change their mood. You need to know what are these phrases to live happily with no problems of your own creatoin. I've experienced some problems in the beginning and I have learned the lesson later :)

Phrases which show you're confused

I don't know what to ... Do what you want in ... I don't care if ...
There is one wish, he always wishes "To be clear" Choose something, anything but don't put the responsibility upon himself to choices which you often do not like. Man loves you to be Initiative, and he likes suggestions of humor but not so alien. Just be clear and straight.

Words of praise and admiration to another man

This actor or singer very sexy and handsome ... Oh I like how this man doing .......

You must not even think about it. That makes him either frustrated or angry. There is no person on earth - a man or woman- accepts that his partner is flirting with another person no matter how how loved or attractive the partner is. Totally rejected the idea of praise and adoration even with your friends in front of him.

Do I look .......... in this dress?

Do I look pretty in this dress? ... Do I look fat in this dress? ... Is the color of this dress...?

We all know that all the answers to this question is mined and that the end will be a storm :). Just avoid problems and look in the mirror, if the garment is very tight to breathe freely don't wear it and let your husband in peace.

Do you think she's nice?

Who ever she is, even if she's your sister.
Are you really looking for an answer or indeed an opportunity to scream and cry?
Of course he would not say she's nice, or beautiful or sexy because he knows that you will not forgive him for life, and it is also expected that if he did not say the reality, you'll say he's a liar and a hypocrite. So do not ask this question because you'll never like the answer and he won't like your attempts and will be astonished at your trials in leading him into the trap of beautiful women.

What are you thinking about?

It is nice if there are some secrets in the relationship. You don't need to know every thing he thinks about, some men do not like their wives to participate in all their thoughts because they think it will be used against them later, or will affect their place in their wives' hearts.

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Happy Family, Happy Lifestyle, Happy Marriage, Happy Mood, Happyness, Newly Married, Things Your Husband Doesnt Like To Hear, Tips For Women

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author avatar kafsoa
Hello everybody;
I'm a mother for 4 lovely cute kids and a very happy wife. Chemistry is my major, but I give a chance to myself on different fields of knowledge. I like to share what I know.

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author avatar Delicia Powers
5th Jun 2011 (#)

You are very wise, advice well given...:0)

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author avatar kafsoa
5th Jun 2011 (#)

Thanks Delicia, but I wasn't that wise in the beginning:) Now I think before I talk to my husband although he's nice and very gentle, but tide changes:)

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author avatar richardpeeej
5th Jun 2011 (#)

Thanks for sharing this kafsoa. some very good points .:-)

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author avatar kafsoa
5th Jun 2011 (#)

You're welcomed Richard. Just let her read them ;)

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author avatar Songbird B
6th Jun 2011 (#)

Good advice here, Kafsoa.. Have taken them on board..

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author avatar kafsoa
6th Jun 2011 (#)

:D LOL

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author avatar Tranquilpen
6th Jun 2011 (#)

Hello Kafsoa, I,m not a "freshly" married woman but often a stale old male breadcrumb, when it comes to keeping my mouth shut!, Tightly! at times... O.K. then, many times!, even after 35 years. So I just had to read up on your tips for the ladies, so I could improve. I found them very interesting and will try to use them in future.Ha,Ha, I also tend to exaggerate sometimes as well :-))

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author avatar kafsoa
6th Jun 2011 (#)

Haha, I should have changed the title :D Me too I still follow my tips as much as I can "when I can" I just wanted the young ladies to practice earlier than I did : ))

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author avatar satan fury
7th Jun 2011 (#)

This is very good advice, however, I don't think it's a big deal for a man to admire or glance at another woman if he is in a relationship. Celebrities are not a threat either, but yes he or she must not cross that line of disrespect.

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author avatar kafsoa
7th Jun 2011 (#)

Thanks cutipie for reading my page. Yes I agree with you everybody should watch the border line.

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author avatar Lloyd Waters
7th Jun 2011 (#)

Thank you for reminding everyone not to ask those loaded questions. I dated a woman who asked them all the time .... I always knew I was in for a tongue lashing, no matter how I answered. Nobody likes that, really!

Thank you!

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author avatar kafsoa
7th Jun 2011 (#)

See Lloyd, I can read men's minds:)

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