The terrors of tortuous sex lives
Not everyone is happy to think about sex, because fort them, the experience is the exact opposite of pleasure.
Not everyone is lucky enough to enjoy a healthy sex life, something many of us take for granted. Sex is a big part of our lives, and , in ordinary circumstances we really enjoy the experience, but not everybody is so fortunate, and for these poor people, like the 34 year old Emma, who is English, sex is something hateful. Moments with her husband, when intimacy is called for, are dreaded, not exciting times for Emma, as being allergic to sex is her terrible burden.
Difficult as such a dreadful prospect might be for anyone faced with it, Emma only became aware of her awful allergies when meeting her husband –to-be. Never having had any such problems in the bedroom beforehand, S the poor girl has suddenly become allergic, not least to latex, ruling out the use of condoms, but, even more importantly, Emma cannot bear to be touched by the semen her new husband ejaculates!
The sad truth of the fact that some ignorant people might snigger, upon hearing about this allergy is bad enough,but for poor Emma it could easily be serious enough to cause her death, so adverse to his sperm is she. Sex ought to be a very important part of any relationship, but sexual spontaneity is impossible for this beleaguered couple, unable enjoy a passionate wedding night, life made very difficult for them indeed."
Skin tests, on Emma, revealed that she was allergic to the latex, which brought out a rash of hives across her stomach and private parts. Not only that, but she also experiences breathing difficulties akin to asthma attacks, dizziness and headaches if latex comes into contact with her skin. Her misery, was complete, when further tests showed her having developed an allergy to semen as well. Both her French husband and the poor Emma hope that normal service, in the sex department, can eventually be resumed, but nobody knows.
Incredibly, for someone's immune system to go suddenly haywire is far from unusual, though. Semen allergies are exceptionally rare, doctors seeing no more than one or two cases, during their entire careers. Consquently, very little is known about the problem, or how it might be treated. These are problems in the sex department that no man would want to experience, though another sort of sexual problem that.could, possibly have you licking your lips in anticipation.
There is an attractive and intelligent London girl, named Ivonne Valentino, who has this particular problem, which is making her otherwise happy life quite miserable. 25-year-old Ivonne is so addicted to sex, and having a man inside her, that her compulsion, at one time, drove her to find TEN different men to sleep with, during the course of a single day.
Having, she claims, slept with, at the very least100 men, when finds it impossible to form normal relationships with any man, her sexual demands always resulting in her being ditched by exhausted sexual partners. The problem, partly, is that Ivonne is a vivacious brunette, and well-stacked, which only makes her situation worse. Nudge-nudge jokes, knowing winks and fits of laughter, from those failing to appreciate how desperate her condition is, only serve to make her more depressed.
Counselling, she hopes, will help quell her lusting, and lead her to a more normal life, but it is a gamble. Ivonne has the feeling that, for her, sex is like breathing, something she must do simply to survive. It was not until she had frank discussions with girlfriends, and their reactions,that she realized how bad it was. She needs sex, as many times a day as she can get it, to the extent that sex has become an addiction. Her last boyfriend felt overwhelmed, because she could find no time for anything but sex, and left her. Her life, she feels, is in ruins, and she wants to be cured.
She has, in the past, had sex in parks, openly, at night and was almost caught doing it on a long-haul flight. She has taken far too many, stupid, risks and now really wants to stop. Unable to explain what drives her, Ivonne feels that it is a genuine bodily need of my body. Without daily she gets tearful and angry,, then depressed, and needs to masturbate several times daily.
She craves sex lthe way that other people are addicted to drink or drugs. Knowing that her behavior could very easily get her hurt one day, or even land her in real trouble with the police, do not deter her, because she feels unable to help herself, however wrong she knows it, deep down, to be. Ivonne has to conquer her obsession, if only to retain her sanity, but how many men fantasize, smiling, about encountering a woman like her, even just once in their lifetimes? I
It is a fact that sex addiction is a recognized, medical condition, because of internet access, most commonly pornography online. Like an alcoholic in a brewery, a sex addict online is immovable. These poor people have problems far worse than simply living with a high libido, becausesex dominates their every thought, making them feel out of control, much of the time, and helpless to change things.
Perhaps the vast majority of us are fortunate indeed that we do not undergo the painful mental ramblings that must be everyday, for the sufferers of such sexual tortures. It is largely unimaginable, for those of us who have ordinary lives, with average amounts of sexual activity, to really grasp the enormity of the problems these poor people have to deal with. There but for the grace of god, thank heaven for plain and simple.