The Mistake Ladies make
Men love and respect ladies who are reserved and disciplined. A lady who will insist on marriage before sex. Such ladies are treasured before and after marriage.
Indispensable Guide to Eligible Spinsters
1. Marry a man dying for your love: A lot of women want to rule their marriage, or home. Want to have complete possession of their husband. She wants him to approve and allow everything she does or desires. She wants him to be in the kitchen with her. While she is cooking she wants him to be washing the dishes!
This is impossible and unthinkable in African culture, yet it is quite possible if a lady married a man who was dying for her love before marriage.
When a lady gave in to the proposal and married the man who labored very hard to secure her hand in marriage; the man, after marriage can go to any length to do anything to make her happy in the marriage. Even if she asked him to help wash and iron her clothes, cook and spoon-feed her, the husband may not hesitate but oblige her. This is because of the magnitude of love he has for her.
The mistake some ladies make this modern age, is that, they chase or run after men instead of the other way round!
Some of them woo, toast and approaches men for friendship and relationship! A lot of them gave themselves freely and on a platter of gold to men thus devaluing themselves and making themselves cheap!
Today, some ladies will do everything possible to attract and win the affection of a man! if such ladies' induced love eventually led to marriage, the lady in question, may not enjoy the said marriage because the husband may turn out to be irresponsible in such marriage, and the wife will always be at the mercy of the husband; thus, she will suffer untold hardship in her matrimony.
2. Zip up and close your thigh before marriage:
Aside from the fact that the Holy Scriptures disapprove pre-marital sex and that God sees it as a serious and punishable sin; it also has adverse effect on eligible Spinsters before or after marriage.
Another mistake of ladies - eligible Spinsters, is that, they are eager to satisfy the man they are dating, even sexually! They erroneously felt sexual intercourse is an integral part of relationship and indispensable in courtship! To these ignorant lovers, it is an expression of love. Even when the man is not keen about it, they keep pressurizing and persuading the man and concluding that they are not being loved! To such ladies, sex is an expression of love and the proof of it ! But unfortunately for such ladies, there are men who will never marry a lady once they have slept with her more than twice!
Where the lucky ones among the ladies still succeeded in getting married to the man who had slept with them several times, they are not usually lucky in such marriage in that, the husband in most cases seldom treat such wives with minimum respect.
Ladies, be wise!
Once a man have had enough of you sexually, he might dump you! But if you are lucky enough to be married to him eventually, he may not value and respect you as he should. And eventually, the marriage may hit the rock as a result of his maltreatment, uncaring and uncivil attitude towards you. Again I say, Ladies be wise!