The Mistake Ladies make

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Men love and respect ladies who are reserved and disciplined. A lady who will insist on marriage before sex. Such ladies are treasured before and after marriage.

Indispensable Guide to Eligible Spinsters


1. Marry a man dying for your love: A lot of women want to rule their marriage, or home. Want to have complete possession of their husband. She wants him to approve and allow everything she does or desires. She wants him to be in the kitchen with her. While she is cooking she wants him to be washing the dishes!

This is impossible and unthinkable in African culture, yet it is quite possible if a lady married a man who was dying for her love before marriage.

When a lady gave in to the proposal and married the man who labored very hard to secure her hand in marriage; the man, after marriage can go to any length to do anything to make her happy in the marriage. Even if she asked him to help wash and iron her clothes, cook and spoon-feed her, the husband may not hesitate but oblige her. This is because of the magnitude of love he has for her.

The mistake some ladies make this modern age, is that, they chase or run after men instead of the other way round!

Some of them woo, toast and approaches men for friendship and relationship! A lot of them gave themselves freely and on a platter of gold to men thus devaluing themselves and making themselves cheap!

Today, some ladies will do everything possible to attract and win the affection of a man! if such ladies' induced love eventually led to marriage, the lady in question, may not enjoy the said marriage because the husband may turn out to be irresponsible in such marriage, and the wife will always be at the mercy of the husband; thus, she will suffer untold hardship in her matrimony.

2. Zip up and close your thigh before marriage:

Aside from the fact that the Holy Scriptures disapprove pre-marital sex and that God sees it as a serious and punishable sin; it also has adverse effect on eligible Spinsters before or after marriage.

Another mistake of ladies - eligible Spinsters, is that, they are eager to satisfy the man they are dating, even sexually! They erroneously felt sexual intercourse is an integral part of relationship and indispensable in courtship! To these ignorant lovers, it is an expression of love. Even when the man is not keen about it, they keep pressurizing and persuading the man and concluding that they are not being loved! To such ladies, sex is an expression of love and the proof of it ! But unfortunately for such ladies, there are men who will never marry a lady once they have slept with her more than twice!

Where the lucky ones among the ladies still succeeded in getting married to the man who had slept with them several times, they are not usually lucky in such marriage in that, the husband in most cases seldom treat such wives with minimum respect.

Ladies, be wise!

Once a man have had enough of you sexually, he might dump you! But if you are lucky enough to be married to him eventually, he may not value and respect you as he should. And eventually, the marriage may hit the rock as a result of his maltreatment, uncaring and uncivil attitude towards you. Again I say, Ladies be wise!

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I am Venerable Ebenezer Onipede an Anglican Priest in Lagos Diocese; a gifted writer and a motivational speaker, I have written some books, which I have published and am here to work with wikinut

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th Dec 2016 (#)

Well do men who love their women endlessly exist??? They are either married or have a boyfriend and honestly, if you don't give in to them they sleep with another.
I married my first love and yes zipped my thighs shut but my religion was a hint of what his bitch of a mother thought of me. I was of another religion.
Now 15 years too late, I learnt I should have never married as his mother was his girlfriend and I was just his pawn in bed.
While you have rightfully put it, none of the slick modernity quips with jibes to the prim and proper like myself works as men whore any hole they find accessible and money is paid either via a glass of wine or beer or just a wink.
He has another now and still married and my thighs have been zipped shut since October 2010 and no regrets. I am proud to be myself and left him to his Aussie French Pornstar to make cat-eyed babies with him while I take my child to my world forever. He told me in his own words, he wanted her as she was top heavier and will make him cat eyed babies. I wished him well and walked out never to return again.

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author avatar onipede24
29th Dec 2016 (#)

Lady Aiyanna, of course I know he will sleep with another if you zip up. It is far better for you if he sleeps with another girl outside. Remember you were not yet married then, and that means he wasn't completely yours then. That would have been okay than for you to loose your respect and be treated like a cheep girl. Exactly what I said will happen after marriage is what you are experiencing now. How I wish I had met you online through this medium in 2010 to be your counselor!

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th Dec 2016 (#)

Any tips for male decency and keeping their whoring peckers celibate till do us part??? They love to cheat you know and whores love them which is why the prostitution industry is the biggest money making industry which is also the oldest industry as men whore any hole that is freely available for lust.

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th Dec 2016 (#)

One man till date and counting and no regrets. Should have remained a virgin and never married.

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author avatar onipede24
30th Dec 2016 (#)

Be consoled, my Sister, life is full of ups and downs. There are always trying times, trials and tribulations. Everyone has a cross to carry, but the good news is that, every adversity has its expiring date! There is a brighter day ahead of you. Your season of joy, laughter and dancing is ahead and close at hand. Cheer up. It is not over until it is over!

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th Dec 2016 (#)

Sorry Padri, I don't trust priests, they love Alter Boys which is seen in today's Altered Boys Like Brucilla Jenner and Justine Beaver. All Package friendly people.

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author avatar onipede24
29th Dec 2016 (#)

If you don't trust Priests I won't blame you for that. You must have a good reason for saying that. I as a Priest can tell you categorically that about 65 out of 100 people who calls themselves "men of God" are actually "Men of the Devil !"

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th Dec 2016 (#)

If you are Roman Catholic and a priest, are you unmarried and a virgin?? Of have you feasted on the nuns in the RC nunnery. That is why the adoption business within churches are rampant.

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author avatar onipede24
29th Dec 2016 (#)

I am an Anglican Priest, married and blessed with 5 Children.

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
25th Dec 2016 (#)

You are Anglican, beg your pardon, you cheeky fellows marry and then preach the word of God with nuns still available.

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author avatar onipede24
29th Dec 2016 (#)

Dear Lady Aiyanna, am very sorry am just responding to your comment, I was very busy. I am also very sorry to learn about your terrible and sad experience in the hands of a man. Of a truth, there exist one or two animal in human skin called man/husband but then, God has endowed every woman with some grace to soften even the heart of the devil himself! Every woman must learn the secret of a happy home. Marriage is like a game and like every other games, it has its rules. The women that enjoys a happy home/marriage are those who have learnt the secret of respect and submission to their husband.
You could have conquered the him with abundance of love and care through humility.God so created women with abundance of grace they could bring out the angel in a devilish man with patience, love, humility and endurance. Patience can cook a stone and soften i! Moreover, dear sister, separation from your husband is not the will of God for you. It is against the original plan of God. In Genesis 2:18 God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone"
Loneliness or the position of "Alone" "Single" is not God's wish for you; but now you have returned back to the state of "It's not good". Lady Aiyanna, permit me to share this testimonies with you:
1) During one of my programmes, "Singles and Married night" where issues of marriage and relationships are discussed. A young lady came out and shared this with us- that she observed her husband cannot take his eyes off anything in skirt, so she came up with the idea of making sure her husband had several rounds of sexual intercourse with her every time he wants to go out! She would make sure he is tired and exhausted before leaving the house, by so doing even if the man saw a naked lady on his way, he wouldn't even look at her twice! It sounds very funny isn't it? But it worked like magic! By this unique and funny method, she was able to suppress and conquer the sexual greed in her husband!
2) A young woman came to me early August 2016 and complained bitterly that her marriage was at the verge of collapsing! What happened:
1. Her husband keeps late night, attends night club with prostitutes, and always arrived home after 12am in the midnight!
2. He watches blue films every day and there after masturbates.
3. No longer dropping food money at home.
4. No longer attending to the children medically.
5. Lost interest in church services and things spiritual.
When she concluded her story, I immediately saw the root cause of the problems. There is only one cause or reason for all these problems and also one simple solution required.-Sexual hunger!
Her husband was a man that can not do without daily sex! I asked her how many times they do have sex in a week? 3 times, she answered. Or is 3 times not reasonable and sufficient? She asked. To cut the story short, I counseled her and instructed her to allow her husband to have sex with her anywhere anyhow! On getting home she put a call through to her husband announcing her readiness for him "anywhere, anyhow"
Dear Sister Aiyanna that was the end of all the 5 enumerated problems and the beginning of happiness in their home. The marriage was restored! Sister Aiyanna, Happiness in marriage is 99% in the hands of the wife. More often than not, it is the wife who must consciously and deliberately create happiness for herself in her marriage through humility and submissiveness. "Humility" cost nothing, but can buy everything.
A woman must do everything possible to make her marriage work not meeting force with force or try to retaliate. Happy marriage/home will not come easily where a woman is unfortunate to marry an "ungodly man" the wife will have to create it and make it happen.

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author avatar onipede24
29th Dec 2016 (#)

I am an Anglican Priest, Anglican doctrine and tradition is not against Priest getting married unlike the Catholic doctrine. Everything we do in Anglican Church is biblical. The bible is not against priesthood marriage, it gave the option of marriage in order to avoid temptation and sin. The Anglicans chose to marry while the Catholics chose not to. None of the two has gone against the bible, it is a matter of choice. Everybody is free to make a choice. Thank you.

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26th Dec 2016 (#)

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author avatar onipede24
29th Dec 2016 (#)

I am a Clergyman a trained counselor and a true man of God. I am not a miracle worker. Jesus is the only true and reliable miracle worker neither am I a magician. I cannot boast of a particular day or hour a marital problem will be solved. I am not a fake pastor who earns a living by deceit. I think a reasonable person will be skeptical of a "man of God" and his "Agent" WHO WILL ASK YOU TO DO CERTAIN THINGS" and fix a specific time and days to solve man's problems when he is not God. Those who patronizes such are likely to be defrauded.

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