Sex And Relationships- Infidelity

stephaniemorris26 By stephaniemorris26, 17th Jan 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/4ukmsfv4/
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What happens to a relationship after someone is unfaithful and what can you to prevent it from happening again

What to do if your partner or spouse cheats. Can you come back from it?

The first thing you are going to need to do in these circumstances is figure out if the relationship is even worth saving. If this is a one time occurance then maybe, if it has been an ongoing problem in the relationship then maybe it is time to throw in the towel.
If you have decided you are going to give it another shot there are things you can do to make sure it doesn’t happen again, or at least if it does you will know the second time around that you put your all into making it work.
First thing you need to do is find out the reason that it happened to begin with. For some it can be as simple as they have been feeling ignored or unappreciated in the relationship. For others it is all about sex. Talk to your partner/spouse about why they believe they felt to need to go outside the relationship.
You must actually listen to what your partner/spouse has to say. No one likes hearing what they are doing wrong, and it may just be how your partner feels, but perception is reality. How someone feels about a situation is their reality, and it must becomes yours as well for you to understand what has happened.
Finally you must start taking the steps necessary to fix your relationship. Say your partner/spouse has been feeling ignored. Make sure you set aside at least a few mins a day just devoted to them. If they are feeling unappreciated make sure you tell them everyday how thankful you are to have them in your life. If it is a sex problem make sure you spice things up and figure out what it is they are wanting from you.
Infidelity at any stage in a relationship can be devestating, but if you work hard, in most cases, you can begin to repair what has been broken.
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Infidelity, Marriage, Relationships, Sex, Trust

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I am a stay at home mother from beautiful North Alabama. I have 3 wonderful children.12 yr old twin girls and my 2 yr old niece.

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author avatar ittech
18th Jan 2012 (#)

Great write, really enjoyed my read.

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