Men in Their 20s, 30s and 40s Reveal Their Desires.
A 23 year old guy says that his first thought when he sees a woman is," Do I want to have sex with her?" Men in their twenties are not looking for anything long-lasting. The more pretty women they have, the merrier.
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The "Transformers" star Megan Fox tells the June issue of Elle magazine that the latest crop of male model-type actors don't do it for her in the least. She admits that guys in their twenties are a waste of time and have nothing to offer. She says she feels she has a better shot with guys in their thirties.
Ninety-eight men in their 20s, 30s and 40s are surveyed about their feelings on sexuality and intimacy.Respondents in their 20s rated good looks as the most important quality in a potential girlfriend. Men in their 30s and 40s wanted someone with a good sense of humor.
As he enters his thirties, some men give in to their urge to settle down. In a recent poll, 38 year old computer engineer says that he is no longer looking to mate but to date. "I want someone who looks like a good baby-maker, not an anorexic who's afraid to put a cookie in her mouth."
According to research, men in their 40s are looking for companionship. Many men in this age group are very successful, but very lonely. A 42 year old entrepreneur says that now that he is wiser he is more interested in the character of the person than the entire package. Is she caring? Is she loyal? Second, there has to be a level of compatibility at this stage of a man's life. If he can not connect with a woman, then the relationship might seem like a mission impossible.
Men over the age of 40 who are beginning new relationships are looking for a companion to help them navigate through the next phase of their life. Dr. Emerson Eggrichs, in his book, "Love and Respect," places respect as the number one need of men. Secondly, he wants to be admired in all aspects of his life. Next, he craves adventure. Whether it's a sporting event or weekend getaway, anything that will make him feel revived and energized. Physical intimacy is very important for a man in his 40s. He needs to be in a secure relationship with a partner that will understand, listen and support him.