Jealous of new baby
By flavaria, 15th Jul 2012 | Follow this author
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Is common and normal for your toddler get jealous of her new baby brother. Therefore, it is advisable to prevent from the beginning to avoid this uncomfortable situation for him and for you parents.
Jealous of new baby
Here we give some tips to follow to avoid this situation:
Tell your child you're pregnant as soon as you know. It's good to speak with him first because if the child ends up learning that will have a brother or sister for little people allegadas or external to it can be moved and that her parents are hiding something. For him and the situation begins to be forced and not normal.
Hazle participant: Let him also part and make decisions regarding the preparations for the future baby. Ask things like the name he wanted for his brother, as might decorate the nursery, etc..
Make it known all along: Tell and make him acquainted with the course of pregnancy and baby. Furthermore, this explanation compelta teaching ultrasound and letting him put his hand on your belly or gut to speak to him because his brother is listening.
Keep it or Keep it always reported or reported: When we face a birthing, tell you're going to be out a few days and explain that shortie is a journey that you acoradaréis lot from him and tell him who has to stay on these days .
Important to return home with the baby: When you get home let it be your partner who takes over the newborn. So the first thing you will do anything to get home is hug your older child before anyone else, that will make you feel loved and special. Then, offer your brother and tell him that because is very small and can not do anything that he is the "most" of the two has to teach you many things.
Visits: Let him know that for a few days several people come to know the new human being. The visits would be good advise them first to greet more and that if they carry small gift for should also have a detail, however slight, with the eldest son.
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15th Jul 2012 (#)
Nice tips to avoid jealousy from the elder ones.
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15th Jul 2012 (#)
Yes, preparing the child about the new arrival is very important! We must create interest in the child when the lady is interest and make him feel that some one special is arriving who needs the attention of the Child! This not only keep away the jealousy but also helps in creating an intimate bond between the two! Nice article! Thanks dear Ahmad Saidin for sharing!
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