Get Over an Ex Husband or Wife

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For some people, getting over an ex husband or wife is easy. They throw people away as quickly as they change hobbies and jobs, and they have been through the same routine time and time again.

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For some people, getting over an ex husband or wife is easy. They throw people away as quickly as they change hobbies and jobs, and they have been through the same routine time and time again. They are quitters in every sense of the word. Others are not nearly as crass or as selfish, and they have the ability to give and receive true love. These are caring individuals that look for ways to get over the loss of a marriage other than immediately looking for a replacement.

How a person feels depends upon the circumstance, and no two individuals will respond in exactly the same ways when a marriage is over, no matter the situation. When trying to get over an ex husband or wife, implement the following ways to bounce back. It will take time no matter who initiated the divorce. The loss of a marriage can feel like a death for some, but in other cases it is a resurrection and the beginning of a happy new life.

Stay Out of the Fire When Trying to Get Over an Ex Wife or Husband

When looking for ways to get over an ex husband or wife, many people make the mistake of searching for an immediate replacement to fill the void. They do not even wait until the ink dries on the divorce papers before they start advertising for someone new. Not only do they appear pathetically desperate, but this is a very bad move for a variety of reasons. First and foremost, judgment can be greatly clouded shortly after a relationship ends. When searching in haste for someone else, a person can go from the proverbial frying pan and into the fire.

Get Over an Ex Husband or Wife by Appreciating Yourself

Before bringing another person into your life in an effort to get over an ex husband or wife, take time to get to know and love yourself more than ever before. The value of a person is not defined by a girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, or wife. When looking for ways to get over an ex husband or wife, keep in mind that a significant other is not necessary for true happiness. Speaking from experience, some of the loneliest most miserable individuals are married, and some of the happiest people are single in every sense of the word.

Family Members Can Help You Get Over an Ex Husband or Wife

In a marriage, a great portion of time and attention is naturally given to a husband or wife. In extreme cases, some are very controlling and domineering, and they demand their spouse's undivided attention. Jealously rears its ugly head in many ways. Those in this type of relationship can barely find time to call family let alone spend time with them. Phone calls are rudely disrupted by the controlling, selfish husband or wife - if they are able call at all.

Some that are controlling want to see their husband or wife fighting and feuding with family. They persuade their spouse to burn family bridges and cut ties with loved ones because of their selfish needs. In some cases, the controlling spouse does not have close family members. People like this do not want their husband or wife to have family relationships either, but this is just one possible scenario. As previously mentioned, no two situations are exactly the same, and the possibilities are as varied as the individuals.

When looking for ways to get over an ex husband or wife, if bridges have not been burned to the ground, reconnect with family. It should not be difficult to get over an ex that encouraged family discord. For those managing to get out with their mind and emotions intact, ending the marriage is a huge relief.

Go Out with Friends to Get Over an Ex Wife or Husband

When trying to get over an ex that tried to control your every activity, make an effort to go out with friends, and make new connections. Take the initiative, and invite friends out for a meal, a drink, a movie, or anything fun and entertaining. Spending time with others will help you quickly get over an ex. Real friends will not mind lending a sympathetic ear. Emotions will naturally surface from time to time, and friends will be willing to listen.

Get Over an Ex Husband or Wife with a Positive Attitude

These are just some of the ways to try and get over an ex husband or wife. Self improvements and activities with friends and family are not the only methods. Home improvements and hobbies are also great ways to begin trying to get over an ex. Consider the lessons of past relationships, especially the last marriage. With the right attitude, even something negative can be turned into a positive life-changing experience.

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author avatar satan fury
2nd Jul 2010 (#)

Excellent advice. I totally agree. I know this lady and client from my office who wasn't even officially divorced yet and was going out with another partner at the firm. This is not the best approach. I think it's best to stay alone for sometime until you are ready for a new relationship.

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author avatar ADRIAN
4th Nov 2013 (#)






i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he traditional spell hospital casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you traditional spell hospital for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com. and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay

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author avatar Mandy Divanna
4th Mar 2014 (#)

How to get your ex back...
THE GREAT Dr UKAKA WHO BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN JUST ONE DAY.
My name is Mandy Divanna I live in Canada, and i got married four months ago. My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now going out with other girls, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in the house anymore. I became confused and didn't know what to do anymore. So i became worried and stranded, that brought so many thoughts into my mind, because I have never experienced a thing like this before in my life.

So I decided to visit a spell caster, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone's ex lover back, "Dr UKAKA" so I contacted him immediately and I explained to him all my problems and he told me that it will be very easy for him to solve, compare to the ones that he has done before. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me immediately he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really obeyed him. So it was 8:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband's call, and he told me that he was coming back home, and he apologized to me, and told me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some hours later, he really came back home, and that was how we continued our marriage with lots of love and happiness, and our love was now stronger than how it were before. contact him now on freedomlovespell@hotmail.com

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author avatar Rohit19
3rd Jul 2010 (#)


Yes, good advice. Most people get trapped into unnecessary emotions, thereby failing to make the right decision.

I am following you and hope you will follow me too.
Thanks

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author avatar Ishika
10th Apr 2013 (#)

So are i over ur divorce ?

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author avatar Christine
13th Nov 2011 (#)

i was divorced from the 3rd of Novemeber 2011 but my ex already has a relationship after 10 years i think what was it all for? on the other hand i thik life is too short live and be happy .I wish him happiness and love in his life even though he didnt give them to me

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author avatar Tip
5th Mar 2012 (#)

I've been unhappily married to my husband for almost 3 years. I've filed for a divorce but he won't sign. He stays out all the time never calls nor show any concern. He don't even have clothes nor belongings at my house. He hates paying bills and he doesn't fix anything around the house. He's always pointing the finger at me as the bad guy when I have every reason to complain on his negligence. He's not fulfilling my needs nor have time for me and our 4 kids. I've trying buying love from him, giving him large sums of money to help him cause he can't keep a job, He stays in and out of trouble with the law. I don't even have a ring to show that I'm married. I haven't even changed my last name. I'm tired of spending money on a divorce he trying to hold on to in which he really don't work for. What else is there to fight for when you are the only one who's fighting.

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author avatar James
31st Jul 2013 (#)

I have been looking for a love spell to bring back my wife after been separated for 2years,I have tried 3 different spell caster which I paid them money and non of them was able to get my wife back and this make me look frustrated until a friend of mine direct me to Mr Ibadan who did what I called black magic I was in contact with Mr IBADAN and after 48hours my wife call me and said she want us to be together and now we are back again with my 12 years old son and there is more romance in our relationship.please if any one need a real love spell then IBADAN spell is the solution to your relationship problem you can reach him at(ibadanreallovespell@gmail.com) ibadanreallovespell@gmail.com

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author avatar Jenkins smith
23rd Aug 2013 (#)

BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE ANITA AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2YEARS WITH MY 7YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW THIS PHONE NUMBER ONLINE +447012926136 ABOUT MR ODIGIE SPELL IN LONDON AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HIM A CALL.HE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND £500 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS SO I HAVE TO END THE CALL AS I HAVE PAID OVER $7000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR BECAUSE OF ANITA SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HIM A TRY SO I CALLED HIM AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE £340 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS HE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE ANITA AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW ANITA ONLINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFFLINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ONLINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MR ODIGIE THE NEXT DAY THANKING HIM FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HIM AND THANK HIM AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT ANITA PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A LOVE SPELL THE CALL MR ODIGIE NOW +447012926136 OR EMAIL HIM (odigie24hourslovespell@outlook.com)

Sincerely,Jenkins Smith Chicago USA.

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author avatar Joyce
17th Mar 2014 (#)

Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help Dr Papa temple render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 4 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was just checking my mails in the office when i saw someone sharing her testimony on how Dr Papa temple help her out with her marital problems so i contacted the email of Dr papa i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place that i should fill some information concerning my self i did after 30 minus he called me again congratulating me that my problems will be solve within 48 hours. he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage but i will make a free donation to their Papa home anything my heart told me. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don't you give Dr papa a try they work surprises because i know they will also bring back your husband. contact him via supremetemple@hotmail.com(supremetemple@hotmail.com)

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author avatar Edwin
17th Mar 2014 (#)



I have a testimony to share with you only if you are willing to listen to me, My name is Williams Edwin from London. I have been having problems in some aspect of my life which almost led me to commit suicide, several time I applied for jobs and each time I was turn down, it come to a point that my Wife left me for another Man and this made me to have high blood pressure (B.P). One day as I was looking for job online in the internet I came across a testimony of a woman how a great spell caster called VOODOO help her with his spell to solve her problems so I decided to contact the Spell caster (Voodoo) by mail. I narrated all my story to him and the only thing he told me was don't worry because your problems are solve already. for you have made the right choice of contacting me. I filled his form and provide the item he requested from me for the preparation of the spell to get me a good job, bring my ex back and also to heal my high blood pressure (B.P) and today my brothers and sisters that are reading this I am very glad to say that Voodoo is a God on earth. I have a good Job now, My wife is back and I am healed of my High Blood Pressure (B.P). Do you have problems and you think all hope is gone, I advise you to contact VOODOO today and your problem will be solve just as he solve mine ok. Voodoo email is: voodoolovespelltemple@hotmail. com. this african temple is genuine I swear. WOW AM ON TOP YOU CAN BE TOO.INSTEAD OF FALLING FOR THOSE SCAMS THAT CALL THEIR SELF SPELL CASTERS, VOODOO YOU I WILL CONTINUE TO THANK YOUR TEMPLE.

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author avatar Lorieta
14th Apr 2014 (#)


i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really
thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her
email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com, she is a woman and she is great. wish you good time.

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author avatar Vanell
18th Apr 2014 (#)

My name is Vanell from USA.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in March 17th 2013 this year on a business summit. i met a man called DR Samura. He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i am now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address{SAMURATELLERSPELL100@YAHO.COM} OR CALL HIM +2348103508204.
he will solve all kinds of problems for you and you shall be happy for good..

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author avatar Anne
20th Apr 2014 (#)


my name is Annmarie from CANADA, I want to thank the great Dr.Igbodo for what he did for me he brought happiness back into my life. My boyfriend left me and told me is over I was devastated as I loved him so much I decided to contact a spelI caster and I met a friend who told me of a great doctor and I decided to contact him and he told me in three days my boyfriend will call me and beg me to acept him I thought he was joking in three days everything happened as he said I am so happy now.You can also contact him at; igbodospiritualtemple@gmail.com for any kind of help.

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