From Cyberbullying to Stalker: My Personal Story

satan fury By satan fury, 7th Aug 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/zk3vp4zq/
Posted in Wikinut>Family>Domestic Violence & Abuse

Cyberbullying is verbal abuse that occurs online. Cyberbullying abuse includes: a threatening email, nasty instant messages, a website set up to mock others, borrowing someone's screen name and pretending to be them while posting a message,

Let Your Voice Be Heard.

In the newspaper this morning, I came across an article that caught my attention. The headline reads: Anti-bullying workshop set for Aug. 27 at library.

On August 27, the Village of Pinecrest, Florida will host a workshop for parents and children. A panel of experts and teachers will gather together to discuss the facts and warning signs of bullying, the effects on victims, and what adults can do to help those who are being targeted.

When a child is tormented, harassed, humiliated or embarrassed repeatedly by another child using the Internet or any other type of digital technology, it is considered a criminal offense. Cyberbullies may pose as the identity of a victim for the purpose of publishing information in their name that defames or ridicules them. In addition, cyber-bullies love to instigate others to dislike and gang up on the target. They will spread rumors and make false allegations at websites or forums. In some cases, the bully will try to find out personal information through other people such as real name, address, school and or workplace. The motive behind the cyber-bully is to intimidate, threaten the victim's safety and peace of mind. "A knock-down blow," might just be the cure for their mental instability.

According to research, one in five children have been victims of a Cyber-bully. A study conducted by academics at Anglia Ruskin University questioned a panel of 500 people between the ages of 11 and 19. Many of the victims said that the experiences damaged their self-confidence, mental health and even school attendance.

As an adult victim of Cyberbullying, I would like to share my personal story with the rest of the world. For the past several months, I have been harassed repeatedly by a total stranger from the Triond community. The stalker, who resides in New Zealand, claims that she knows me and that my name is Michelle. She has made false allegations against my good character and reputation and published them on an international website for everyone to read. As an educated professional and U.S citizen of good moral character, I chose not to respond to any of her defamatory messages, but despite the fact that I handled things in a mature and professional manner, the abuse has snowballed out of control. Creating fake aliases is her hobby. She logs on with various screen names and insists on spamming my page with offensive comments. I am very grateful for my fans and followers who continue to support me during this time.
I do want other writers on this site to be aware. Please keep in mind that if we don't put a stop to this disruptive behavior, she will continue harassing other people here as well. Hopefully, the moderators on wikinut will provide us with a delete button so we don't have to worry about bullies and spammers anymore. An email feature would be nice too.

Click on this link to read my personal affidavit.

http://authspot.com/short-stories/my-own-written-affidavit/

Tips to Follow To Protect Yourself From Online Predators.

Please be aware of everything you do and say while you enjoy your experience online. Don't rely on the so-called safety of being “anonymous” online. Keep in mind that anything you say or post online can be used against you in a court of law. Cyberbullies have a way of twisting your words around in order to make it seem like your'e the bad person in the situation. In my case, I've never had any type of communication or contact with this person since I do reside in the State of Florida and I'm only here for writing purposes. I believe that I was targeted because I believe in standing up for what is right.Secondly, be wary of anyone associated with online drama; don't feed any of the trolls. They're basically looking for a reaction from you. In my case, the bully has crossed the line from cyberbully to obsessive stalker. Third, document everything and file a complaint with the local FBI Bureau. Finally, report the bully to the owner of the website so they can take action immediately.

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author avatar Damie Zang
7th Aug 2011 (#)

You are plain crazy. You seem to want to cash on the popularity of Aiyanna. Who doesn't know she gets offers to write poems and articles from people all over the world and she has the courage to mention her source of inspiration.
You are just a freak trying to cash on popularity and who know you may be a cyberbully not her.

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author avatar Retired
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Glad to see my poem He'll Break his Marriage has been an inspiration to you.
No doubt my account out there was hacked by known people and deleted but that particular poem was written for a friend of mine and NOT you.
If you are insinuating that you are Michelle, thank you for the admission. I know your name is not Michelle but I have no time to get into cheap fights with you.
Good luck and keep reading and getting yourself charged up.
Don't forget to spam the rest of my poems too as per your own admission, they are rude, obnoxious and sexually explicit.
Not my best works any way, so don't mind.
Thank you for opening my eyes and showing me the taste of real jealousy.
My honour to be an inspiration to you.

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author avatar Retired
7th Aug 2011 (#)

You might want to join them. They seem to have the same agenda as you in spoiling my name: http://www.angelfire.com/va/aiyana/journals2.html

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author avatar Set Free
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Wow! I heard about the workshop. So far I've learned that cyberbullies make up different names and the really mentally unbalanced ones tell extremely tall tales. It's also been said they cyberbullies who are severely mentally ill write pages and pages of lies about their victims. They try desperately to prove the victim is the stalker. They are rarely successful. Most of the time they appear crazier than ever. I did learn a lot from the folks in florida giving the workshop. They have a website. Thanks for the report and update. You have great insight, and I love your articles. Thank God you are free from mental health problems. It can't be easy for those who suffer like that.

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author avatar satan fury
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Thank you for spreading awareness Marlene. Your articles are top-notch

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Damie Zang's comment makes no sense at all, and Aiyanna is badly in need of help. I feel for you Shining Star.

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author avatar satan fury
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Thank you Steve

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author avatar Damie Zang
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Aiyanna help me learn English and I became a good person in Korea.
I read all that you wrote on Get Satisfaction and it is sad you go around spoiling good names of people.
Steve you are an old man with family would you tolerate such things said about your wife and daughter.

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author avatar gina-gee
7th Aug 2011 (#)

Well written Shiningstar. I dont know who is right or wrong but surely wikinut should take responsibility and stop this nastiness.

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author avatar Retired
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Well Gina, this fight was uncalled for. They have been trying to get me to stop writing poetry and have just targeted another fan of mine and abused her very badly. Her name is Ella Dolphino and uses the id Aiyanna. on Triond after these people deleted my profile in a bid to copy my work and malign my name.

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author avatar Retired
9th Aug 2011 (#)

Here is what she wrote to me. This woman is mad.


Love Doctor
Aug 5, 2011
08:35



Do me a favor and FUCK off my page. you must have some serious mental issues when you’re posting stuff on my page.

Love Doctor
Aug 7, 2011
09:27



I feel sorry for your ass. Get some help seriously. I am not looking for fame because I am already an established writer. I live the life that most women wished they lived. I can see why your husband left you psycho loonie. now what is it that you don’t understand. Again, do me a favor and FUCK off. Do I make myself clear?

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Yes, Damie Zang (Aiyanna), I am indeed an old man, and Shining Star doesn't even know you, but you are operating under a the delusion that she does. Please stop cyberbullying her and get yourself some badly needed psychiatric help. You see, I'm old enough to figure out when someone reveals through their hateful comments that they are menatlly ill. Get off it.

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author avatar Retired
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Steve, Damie was my student whom I taught English to in India at the Career College. I was an International Student English Teacher for a short period of time.
She is Korean and has just come out to write again. She was Damie H then and Zang after marriage.
Sorry Steve, but you ought to be ashamed of yourself of falsely accusing people of their identities.
Here is what your Shining Star did to 15 year olf Ella Dolphino, a deaf, dumb and lame girl who loves writing and this woman abused her very badly. Read it for yourself: http://writinghood.com/online-writing/who-does-love-doctor-think-she-is-queen-of-triond/

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author avatar Frank Bowes
9th Aug 2011 (#)

Medication is needed for this Aiyanna. Why would she be allowed to slander so freely. We banned and deleted her from Triond. It's a shame Shining Star is harassed and stalked and no one will ban and delete the culprit Aiyaana, This is a delisional person, impersonating a writer. On top of that, she has no talent to speak of. In fact, her work is pure, undeluted horse manure.

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author avatar Retired
8th Aug 2011 (#)

BTW, I am not shy to show my face and fight for what is right and Anisha Achankunju is my real name and identity and I am unlike some here who deface under false pretenses. I am not pointing fingers but surely you are mature enough to know what I mean.
I am not party to such gossip and trysts but if you malign my name, I will stand up and give you my word and openly. Whats the worse that can happen, delete my account on false pretenses AGAIN??? Go ahead, I save my work offline and have my own website too and my profile and works are 100% authentic too.

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author avatar Frank Bowes
9th Aug 2011 (#)

Medication is in order for this crazy slanderer Aiyanna. Unbelievable! She is soul rosa, delrose for johnny, diana rogers, love honey and who know who else. Aiyanna is a person suffering from multiple personalities. She should be bounced off this site. She is a first class , textbook case.

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author avatar Steve Kinsman
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Shinig Star - I'm sorry to be using your space to rail at Aiyanna, but enough is enough from that woman.

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author avatar satan fury
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Steve, I appreciate it. Thank you for your support. Cyberbullies need to be exposed.

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author avatar Set Free
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Shininig Star, Aiyanna is in need of help. Everyone knows this. Everybody across the web knows she uses a ton of different names. Everyone know and will stick together, continuing to support you. That is what friends do.

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author avatar Retired
8th Aug 2011 (#)

Steve I have never done anything to either of you so would be appreciative if you please highlight what is it that I did to you...
Or are you jealous of the views I used to get on Triond as that was my last comment on your work.

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author avatar Mark Gordon Brown
8th Aug 2011 (#)

So much drama, I am amazed, if people spent more time writting good links, and promoting them, and less time bothering others, there would be none of this.

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author avatar satan fury
9th Aug 2011 (#)

Thank you Mark. This is unbelievable! This has never ever happened to me before.

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author avatar Retired
9th Aug 2011 (#)

Surely it has and by you:

Love Doctor
Aug 5, 2011
08:35



Do me a favor and FUCK off my page. you must have some serious mental issues when you’re posting stuff on my page.

Love Doctor
Aug 7, 2011
09:27



I feel sorry for your ass. Get some help seriously. I am not looking for fame because I am already an established writer. I live the life that most women wished they lived. I can see why your husband left you psycho loonie. now what is it that you don’t understand. Again, do me a favor and FUCK off. Do I make myself clear?

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author avatar Retired
9th Aug 2011 (#)

This is how Shining Star abuses good writers on Triond:

Love Doctor
Aug 5, 2011
08:35



Do me a favor and FUCK off my page. you must have some serious mental issues when you’re posting stuff on my page.

Love Doctor
Aug 7, 2011
09:27



I feel sorry for your ass. Get some help seriously. I am not looking for fame because I am already an established writer. I live the life that most women wished they lived. I can see why your husband left you psycho loonie. now what is it that you don’t understand. Again, do me a favor and FUCK off. Do I make myself clear?

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author avatar satan fury
9th Aug 2011 (#)

Aiyanna,
Yes, I did email that to you on Triond because you do deserve it. And so what?

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author avatar Frank Bowes
9th Aug 2011 (#)

We banned and deleted this nut Aiyanna from Triond already.

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author avatar Lady Aiyanna
8th May 2013 (#)

I have always been authentic the way I am and today, I have come back to show you my face of authenticity:
www.facebook.com/ladyaiyanna1

I am legally endorsed on my pseudonym and its my Sole Trade Company in New Zealand.

You never emailed me but a girl who killed herself for what you did.

Am glad to be away from this website as nuts like you use things like these to malign people till their spouse lose their mental balance, break homes, and destroy lives. Yes, you did that to me in NZ but I am coming back up again without the lot of you but just decided that I would tell you this, I AM WHO I ALWAYS SAY I AM AND NEVER HIDE MY REAL LIFE UNDER FALSE PRETENSES .

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