Don't Expect a lot
By vidhyaprakash, 11th Jan 2012 | Follow this author
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This article is about parents expectations about their kids and suggest parents to avoid this expectations
Expecting a lot from kids
Some parents having lot of faith with their children and expecting a lot from them. Mostly parents having this kind of expectations with their elder kid or younger one, since the elder is the first one to the family and having lot of responsibilities about their parents and siblings and the younger one is little than all other. So parents and siblings expect some things from the eldest of the family or the youngest of the family.
Some times this kind of expectation will make a great burden to the kids and they are depressed with it, if the parents told that you are the elder or younger of our family and we have trust in you for our family responsibilities, it will forcing them to take the responsibility and they are getting worry about this. Since they don't have more experience in the life and don't know more about the real life, so don't force your kid to take responsibilities. They will take it after getting matured.
Don't expect your kids to take the responsibility as well as force them to do it. As a parent, it is your duty to take the responsibility of the family till your son/daughter getting matured, after getting the maturity, automatically they will take care of the family needs. If we force them to do a work, they don't get interest in the work as well as they start to hate the work. So never expect a lot from your children.

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12th Jan 2012 (#)
Nice advice. I agree.
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12th Jan 2012 (#)
Your advice is spot on. Nice read. Thank you for sharing.:)
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