Confess YOU HAVE FAILED and Be Success (Part 1)
Have you acknowledged that you have failed? So many people fail. But how many of those who admit it? Understanding yourself is not really a difficult thing. Just imagine, it's something about our own, meaning 'is' the more we know about ourselves, rather than someone else. No one in this world who always succeed in anything. Certainly in a while he will fail and error. It is only human. Everyone has one and failed. Which one is that if we do not learn from that failure.
Man who Failed
Have you ever felt failed? Have you acknowledged that you have failed? So many people fail. But how many of those who admit it?
Indeed, the failure is a human thing. Failure not a bad thing. So, why be ashamed. The problem, if we dare to admit a failure. Acknowledging the failure is not an easy matter. People who sincerely acknowledge his failure, it certainly has a great soul. Because
Not easy to admit a failure, then the required level of own courage and honesty of the most deeply.
Failure makes people upset, disappointed and angered. Unfortunately the cause of failure was then assigned to another person. More unfortunately again in us are taught to never accept failure. Since little has been implanted in our minds that all activities, all forms of thought or many other things should be in the format of success. There's nothing wrong with the actual planting of such thoughts. But unfortunately, was never mentioned anything about the failure. As a result when we fail ourselves, sticking to the surface is confusion react to it.
Understanding yourself is not really a difficult thing. Just imagine, it's something about our own, meaning 'is' the more we know about ourselves, rather than someone else. We also know the most about the reasons we do certain actions. The mind is like a knife. He is a tool that must be sharpened on a regular basis to maximize its potential. The mind may grow continuously throughout life. Any understanding as well, what we understand to be the right thing may one day not too true. Therefore, we have found a more correct understanding.
Understand yourself is the foundation to improve performance and to improve self-confidence, and also improve the understanding of other people. So it is important for a leader to take the time not only to understand others, but the first is to understand ourselves. What we need to understand from our own? For example, what values we anutnya (e.g., honesty, cooperation, responsibility), what weaknesses and strengths we are, what interests us, what our purpose in life, what we stand for this.
The introduction of self is an ongoing challenge. That's also making it fun. Getting to know yourself is a matter of exploring who you are: what you like, what you do not like, what you want, how you feel, what you believe, what you stand for, and what do you think you can give to the world.
All human beings, at any time, continue to grow, gain new experiences, learn new things and constantly changing inside and out. Such self-knowledge that does not require a short time.
Don't Be Affraid
Who is having a haughty character, difficult to admit he was wrong. If he fails or one that is sought scapegoats to blame for errors and failures. He's not introspection, not to evaluate why he was wrong, why he failed.
No one in this world who always succeed in anything. Certainly in a while he will fail and error. So if you fail or have errors. It is only human. Everyone has one and failed. Which one is that if we do not learn from that failure.
However, many people are afraid to dream. They chose to live his life by going with the flow. Such people do not want to decorate their lives with a grain of plans that are strung in strands ideals. What lies ahead, they consider a destiny that must be undertaken with care field. It's not wrong. My own will but rather assume that in the future, we as humans have the right to decorate it with the plans and dreams.
They hate the process they should take in order to realize their dreams. They do not want to pass the limits of their ability of self. They do not want to push themselves. They do not know that in fact it will enhance their value as human beings, and of course bring them one step closer to their dreams.
There is still a contributing factor. Some of them may fear the social consequences of the process of dreaming. When they dream, and told their dreams to others, they feel that they have to, I mean absolutely MUST be able to realize their dreams and be accountable for his dream to others. During their dream has not materialized, they would feel that they are the world's most failed.